How do you select your friend?
Hello everyone, hello hivers,how are you all doing today, I hope you are all doing well? It's been a real tough day as for me, as you all know I went for a vigil last night...
So while we were coming back our car tire went flat so we looked for a substitute tire and on the process the spring of the right tire at the back pulled away and automatically all the three present male gender changed to a car mechanic...
It was really tough, we started working on the car since 5:40am till almost 8:30am, like I said it was really tough and now I'm still tired and haven't recovered from that stress so at first I really didn't have what to write about, but I think I later had something to write about...
So today I want to talk about friendship, you know, a lot of people do not understand the real meaning of friendship me included, we put everyone into the space of friendship which is not supposed to be...
Recently I've been trying to put or let me say to set a boundary between my talk mates andy friends... because until you know the true meaning of friendship, you'll just abuse it, like I said I was a victim of these because of my kind of life style which was in a way unconsciously or unknowingly dangerous to me...
As we should all know, not everyone that we meet are supposed or are meant to be our friends, some are just to stay as talk mates, and some, to me can be classified to as just greeting mates...
How do we then know who is and who is not a friend? you may ask...
- First of all, a friend is a person which you can never be ashamed of or will not be ashamed of you no matter what, a friend that will be ashamed of you after your fall is definitely and obviously not a friend. So if you have anyone that you call a friend and anytime you do something wrong and the person is ashamed of you then obviously that person is not your friend...
secondly, a friend will at all times of your need be sacrificial and when they don't have you'll know, a friend will never lie to you no matter what, like they say a friend in need is a friend indeed, so of you have a friend that lies to Yiu or can't sacrifice for your sake well that person is not a true person...
A friend will never go behind you to gossip, instead a friend will influence you but positively, if otherwise then that person is definitely not a friend, like they say, show me your friend and I'll show you who you are...
We just have to be really careful in selecting the people we move with and mostly the people we call our friends... Live right, choose right, be happy, zara loves you...