What Do You Think When You See An Adorable Child?
As a single lady, have you ever looked at someone's child or baby graciously with so much love and affection? It seems to be one of the things ladies naturally do. A woman expresses love for babies or children more than the male counterpart does, and often I ask myself why that is so. Though many will give me one and a million reasons why it is that way.
Well, today I wouldn't ask for those reasons, rather I will love to know if there has ever been a time or times when a single lady looks at a fellow woman's baby and wishes they were their own or looks at them with love, praying and hoping that in the future when they bring forth their seeds that they will be as beautiful and lovely as the ones they have seen or met so far.
As a person, I have had this kind of thought many times and almost every time I run into a cute and adorable-looking sweet child. It gives me bubbles and gardens my heart.
Sometimes we question the gene of a child when they come out looking way too beautiful or cuter than their parents. And sometimes we naively assume that the cuteness or fineness of a child can only be determined by the genes or traits of the parents. Well, though this is also true in a way, sometimes it's not a 100% guarantee that your baby or child will come out looking like you.
We have seen this a couple of times, I have seen this before and many times. There are parents we assume aren't as fine or beautiful to our taste yet their children take up the looks that leave people amazed and questioning their DNA and sometimes the reverse is the case.
Ladies have this weakness of trying to determine the cuteness of their child based on their spouse's looks or even their looks. And so when they see adorable children, they are easily drawn to them and silently pray their children will be adorable too.
For a few weeks now, my neighbor, one of my dad's tenants put to birth, and although their heart desire was to have a baby girl since they are already blessed with two male children. And every woman's dream is to have her replica. They love their baby boy but, they also love a baby girl and crave them as much too. So everyone could tell that the family also wanted a baby girl and they must have earnestly prayed for a girl this time around but God being God blessed them with another baby boy still.
From the mother's voice, you could tell that she eagerly wanted a girl but we still thank God for the safe delivery and the new life. The newborn turned out to be quite different from the other two brothers, different in terms of his complexion and looks too.
Here we believe that a child takes up the complexion of either the father, mother, or even close relatives. And this child was born with a light complexion, and neither the father nor mother are light in complexion. Both are dark and the first two boys are dark too, and only the newborn baby took up a light complexion, although some thinks he might get dark with time, I don't know about that, I only know that the little boy is cute just the way he is.
Sometimes my kid brother babysits the little brothers when the mom steps out or is a little busy or occupied. And sometimes my mom takes care of the newborn baby as well. I have the chance of staring at this beautiful soul each time my mom carries him or looks after him for a short moment before his mother comes to take over.
Look at this beautiful soul, I pray he grows up to be a bright child just like his brothers and that he makes the parents proud.
Babies are just too adorable and you can't look at them and not be moved by compassion and love for them.
I love babies, and cute ones at that lol.
Photos are mine except stated otherwise
𝐀𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐫
𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐖𝐚𝐤𝐲! 𝐀 𝐦𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢-𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐳𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐫. 𝐀 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐝𝐝𝐬.
𝐈 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐞𝐱𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐲 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐡 𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐞 "𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐆𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞".
𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐲 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐝𝐲𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐜 𝐰𝐚𝐲
𝐇𝐈𝐕𝐄 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐎𝐌𝐄 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐏𝐀𝐂𝐄.
𝑨𝒑𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏
𝑻𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒇𝒂𝒊𝒕𝒉𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔! 𝑴𝒚 𝒘𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒐𝒓𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒇𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐𝒘 𝒉𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒔!
𝑻𝒐 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒅, 𝒎𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒈𝒐𝒆𝒔 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒈𝒖𝒚𝒔. 𝑻𝒐 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒅𝒆𝒆𝒎𝒔 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒍𝒆𝒔 𝒇𝒊𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕.
𝑰 𝒂𝒎 𝒔𝒂𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒚 𝒋𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝑯𝑰𝑽𝑬 𝒂𝒏 𝒆𝒙𝒄𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒇𝒖𝒏-𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒐𝒏𝒆. 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒍𝒚 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒚 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒖𝒑𝒗𝒐𝒕𝒆𝒔, 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒓𝒆𝒃𝒍𝒐𝒈𝒔. 𝑰 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝑮𝒐𝒅 𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒆𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍 𝒈𝒐𝒐𝒅 :)
12 September 2022
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Monday
It is normal that when we don't have a child we always long for someone else's children, it happened to me at some point in my life.
I understand what happens to you with that child, since he is so cute and adorable, but once you have your own children you will see that you will not look so much at other people's children, but you will concentrate all your energies on your children.
Greetings and thank you for showing us your motherly feelings as a single woman.
I guess you are right that when I have my own kids, I will focus all my love and energy on them.
Greetings to you too.