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While she is small, she add years to their age, try on mother's dresses and shoes when no one sees, put on cosmetics and, consciously or not, try to be like mom.

Then comes the time of trials, teenage rebellions and revolutions, and the mother becomes the antipode.

Mother tries to protect and preserve. Be careful not to scare away. Learn to respect personal boundaries. Learn to overcome fear and begin to trust. Patiently waiting for the storm to subside. Missing children's frankness and hugs.


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But that also passes, and then..... Then she learns what it's like to be herself, and a little like a person whom her mother whould like her to be. A girl, in a word.



Sometimes I learn from her. I learn back things that I actually once knew, a long time ago, maybe even a couple of years. And then this skill somehow disappeared under a layer of worries.



She had birthday yesterday. When she was a kid, she dreamed about gifts and a lot of snow.

Now she is a grown up. I last see her on October 8th, on a day of her wedding ceremony. All these photos were taken on that day. They are so lovely, and I just want to share my precious memories with you.


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It's been such a long time, and I miss her so much. She and her husbad work so hard, and are so busy. And I wish I could be there to help, or just to hug, when she's sad or tired.

Her best wish this year is peace, and me to come for Christmas. And you know, this is my greatest wish too.


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Beautiful mother and daughter, the lovely family moment...Unconditional bonding...

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Nice and beautiful family. Hope you can have a peacefull christmas together.

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Thank you! At least peaceful ❤

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Just heard this song on the radio and thought about you. Merry Christmas!

Children to Power - Translated from German "Kinder an die Macht" - Herbert Grönemeyr

Armies made of jelly bears
Tanks made of marzipan
Wars are all eaten up
Simple plan – childishly genious

There’s no good, there’s no evil
There’s no black, there’s no white
Teeth are lacking instead of oppression
There’s strawberry ice-cream
Always ready for surprise

Give the command to the children
They don’t calculate what they’re doing
The world belongs into children’s hands
And end to sadness
We’ll be laughed in ground and soil
Children to power

They are the true anarchists
Loving chaos, setting free
Don’t know any rights or duties
Still unbowed poer in masses
Savage pride
Give the command to the children
They don’t calculate what they’re doing
The world belongs into children’s hands
And end to sadness
We’ll be laughed in ground and soil
Children to power

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I like the words very much. Ah, if only....

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Time goes by so fast! Don't you often think that yesterday your daughter was a little girl? Happy birthday and happy marriage! Peace, as soon as possible, of course!
When I read about the stages and changes your little girl went through growing up, it reminded me of my own child. I wish I could turn back time...
I wish you a peaceful end of the year, it's hard for me to make wishes, but the easiest thing to say is that I wish you to achieve what you wish for your family, for yourself, and for your country!

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When I read about the stages and changes your little girl went through growing up, it reminded me of my own child. I wish I could turn back time...

I feel you, dear @bluemoon. Your words show what a good person you are.

I asked myself all the time - what future would she have if I'd be a better mother? I was constantly tormented by remorse. I stopped it just recently, when I realized that she became a very good person.
There are lots of what we could do better, sometimes we do mistakes and learn from them. One day I told my daughter about all my concerns, and I said I am sorry for that. Since then, I feel better.😉

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I was constantly tormented by remorse. I stopped it just recently when I realized that she became a very good person.

This is proof that you, parents, are good people. Children are influenced, in most cases, by the way their parents are. They've been watching us even when we haven't noticed...
I believe that and that's my hope.

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That is so beautiful @zirochka, I wish you can have a happy and peaceful Christmas with all your family again very soon

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I have followed the tradition of celebrating Christmas with my whole family all my life. But even if we have to celebrate separately, we will get through it. Many Ukrainians will be celebrating apart from their families this year (or didn't have a chance to celebrate). Refugees, soldiers, volunteers. At least we have warmth and a roof over our heads. This is a lot by today's standards.

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I pray that you are able to see her for Christmas :) It looks like you two are very close ♥️

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We are very close indeed ) And I'll do my best, but if I will have to choose whether to go or to stay I'll choose to stay with my hubby. Because he doesn't deserve to celebrate Christmas alone.

Thank you for curation and for your kind words ❤️

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Whichever you end up doing, I'm sure it will be wonderful :) ... And yes, your hubby deserves for you to be with him for Christmas :)

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So which one is the mother? I do know which is which, but you surely look too young to be her mother. If you had told me you were sisters, I would believe you.

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Wow what wonderful pictures! I can see why you are looking back at them and the happy times you had together on her wedding day and throughout her life. I wish you, your family and your country peace this Christmas season!

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That's the best I can ask for ❤🥰 Thank you, dear Sarah!

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Gawd... you guys are such a good looking family! You look like catalogue models! :D

Gorgeous.

This is really beautiful, Z. Thank you for sharing such an intimate and special day with us. I can't believe that's your daughter. You look like sisters! Share your secrets to immortality, oh wise one! 😁

Came to check in with you and glad it was today.

Also to say I had to reset my phone and lost the draft of the dance video. Yep. Had to resort to using the phone to get it done. We make a plan, right? But then downloaded some malware when I was adding the tunes and rest the phone.

Now have to begin again. And I will. Little late but you're always in my thoughts.

Sending love from ZA. ❤️

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Oh, sorry to hear about troubles with your phone. Sometimes we rely on our gadgets too much or maybe expect too much from them 😆 But no worries, dear Nicky. It's a holiday season, gift, preparations. BTW, I think of you too, especially when breath at night, 4...7...8
Hugs and !luv

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How beautiful 😊

Yeay!

Yep. Tech, huh? What did we do without it??

Holiday pressie in the making then. Take care of yourself, sister. The world needs you.

Massive hugs from ZA. 🥰❤️‍🔥

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