The Fear of Being Different

I have seen people being scared of the people who are different, as they are not like the familiar people we see around. I can completely understand the reason because we are naturally used to the environment where we like similar things and feel familiar. The moment we notice someone who has different kinds of thinking, acts in an unusual way, or dresses differently from us, it can make us feel uncomfortable.
Many people do not know how to deal with this kind of feeling. Another reason, we are unable to understand them because we don’t know them. Usually, we fear what we don't understand. Instead of trying to learn about that different kind of person, people will only choose the negative option, which is to judge them quickly. I personally think that every human being is different and we are individuals. We are not supposed to be the same.
And being different is not a bad thing at all. Others can have different interests or beliefs. They can live their life as they want unless they are harming someone. I believe that the world would be very boring, if we all looked the same, wore the same clothes, listened to the same music. So, diversity makes the world beautiful and interesting. I love to learn new things from different kinds of people.
Well, people are always scared of being different because they worry too much about what others will think. My point is that if we worry about what others will think? Then what will they think about? We are not supposed to do their job of thinking. Like I think it's better to let others think and not do it ourselves. Let others shape us in their mind however they wish. Let's just do what makes us happy. Because we only live once.
I have few friends who want to fit in and try to have the same taste as the people in their circle. They just want to be accepted by their friends or family. In conclusion, they end up hiding the parts of themselves, not only that they also avoid doing things they truly enjoy.
I feel bad for them because they are being forced to change who they are, and that is to make others comfortable. But I think if my choices make someone else uncomfortable, it's their problem, not mine. So, we shouldn't care what others will think.
Being different should not be something to fear. Everyone should freely do what they like, and we have free will. We should not suppress our happiness for someone else's comfort. Differences should be appreciated and accepted. Our unique experiences, talents, and perspectives will be valuable lessons for someone else.
So, we shouldn't judge people for their differences. We should try to know them personally and try to understand them. If we learn to accept and respect each other's differences, then we can successfully create a welcoming world where no one ever feels scared to be themselves.
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