Winner! $10 - Dogs we've loved and lost, and posts we've posted twice -OOPS

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"I had not thought of the death of a beloved dog for a long time. His name was Bobby, he looked like a brown wolf."

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"I was 10 then. I hated fireworks, Christmas, dogs, and my father for a while." -@hlezama




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More on #fireworks, #Christmas, #dogs, and #dads in a minute.
Whatever Bobby looked like, I know this: Bobby was loved, Bobby is missed, and Bobby just won this #contest!

I know, I know: what contest?


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First, proof that @hlezama's Bobby won me over:

If this post generates more comments

from dog lovers like Henrry and @crescendoofpeace, @myjob, @goat-girlz, aislingcronin, @girlbeforemirror, @kendra19, @abojasim880 and more, I'll totally extend this contest.

I have NO IDEA how I generated the same post twice.

It happened to me a week ago with a Freewrite House "Friday Favorites" post.


But you don't care about that, right? If you're still reading, it's because you still wanna know:

What contest?

First, an apology for my unending techno-ineptitude. There is no fix for this, but I'm trying to atone for it, this silly business of two duplicate posts, which I hadn't even noticed, until I started getting comments on both posts.

Oops, and Mea Culpa!

And wouldn't ya know, the one post with a typo in the header (and therefore in the URL) got reposted,

Dogs we've lost and lost

Oops, "LOVED" and Lost.

Well, the need to atone for my techno-sins gave me an added incentive to host a dog-themed contest.
(Cats we've loved and lost would need to be in its own category, right?)
Not to mention farm kids who had to butcher and eat their beloved cow, pig, chicken, or sheep.

One of the most haunting comments came from @hlezama:

I had not thought of the death of a beloved dog for a long time.
His name was Bobby, he looked like a brown wolf.
He was afraid of fireworks. One December night he hid under a car.
The driver, Mr. Martínez, moved the car and smashed his hind legs.
It did not kill him, but he was in great pain.
My father said he'd take care of it.
I thought he meant he'd help Bobby walk again, stop his pain.
We did not have vets in our town.
My father did what was customary. He used poison, or so I was told.
I was 10 then. I hated fireworks, Christmas, dogs, and my father for a while.


That really gets to me:
I hated fireworks, Christmas, dogs, and my father for a while.
But what really inspires me is the ending:
only for a while.

I replied, among other things,
"We need to believe Bobby will greet us, tail wagging, when we cross to the other side.
There has to be another side, a continuation of "us" after this life."

And @hlezama responded,

:) Right. There has to...
It was good reminiscing about it. Thanks creating the moment and the mood for it.
There are of course happy stories too, wild occurrences and crazy things these little friends do and leave for us to remember with an indelible smile.

There's our contest theme!

The "crazy things these little friends do and leave for us to remember with an indelible smile."

Meanwhile, with an indelible smile, I declare this contest has already been won and I hereby award

$10 sbd to @hlezama

for sharing the impact Bobby the brown wolf-dog had on him. (And now me.)

If #Steemit #Help team members are on call,

maybe you can help me avoid this mistake in future.
It used to be that a post, once posted, would leave no trace, but now, it remains in place when I go to create a new post, and I'm guessing I accidentally hit "Post" versus "Clear" post. I've been succesfully clearing posts for days now, but a slip of the mouse might have happened.

The accidental duplicate post is identifiable by a mysterious "javhy" in the URL:

steemit. com/dog/@carolkean/ javhy -poems-about-dogs

https://steemit.com/dog/@carolkean/javhy-poems-about-dogs-we-ve-lost-and-lost-or-neolithic-humans-buried-with-their-dogs-4-000-years-ago

https://steemit.com/dog/@carolkean/poems-about-dogs-we-ve-lost-and-lost-or-neolithic-humans-buried-with-their-dogs-4-000-years-ago

And I am going out to play with our own dogs now.

Cheers!



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Oh, that's a lovely scene there. They must have so much fun in that river.
Thanks again, @carolkean, for this wonderful opportunity to share our stories and hopefully raise awareness about animal care and the handling of the emotions produced by their loss.
The picture you chose to illustrate Bobby was quite good. That's how he looked after rummaging, tossing, and twisting in the garbage.

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Ohhhhh I'm so happy to hear the photo I found does remind you of Bobby!
Yes, the boys (prince and bear) love their river walks. Over the meadow and through the woods, to the water we go! As soon as the poison ivy dies down.
You make a compelling point Henrry:

raise awareness about animal care

along with

the handling of the emotions produced by their loss.

You have a beautiful soul!

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This photo reminds me of both of my Newfies, though I had them many years apart, as they lived for water, and got in it whenever possible, advisable or not.

Not so our current dog, Lolo, Pyrenees mix that he is. Lolo does NOT love the water, not even a little bit, and it takes all sorts of coercion just to get him to go out and pee in the rain.

Which is just perfect now that we live on a river, which has neither alligators nor sharks, but Lolo couldn't care less. It's wet, so ewwww.

Sheesh! What a sissy. ;-)

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Oh, Lolo!
There is no accounting for taste.
Maybe the daily presence of the river and access to it lessens the thrill..? Nah. We have trees and squirrels, and NOTHING lessens that thrill for our dogs.
Oh, the irony.

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Nah, if it has done more than sprinkle, he lifts his feet while walking, as if saying "Eww! Eww! Eww!" with each step.

When it comes to rain, and wetness, ge really is a sissy boy.

Now, as for chasing rabbits, deer, etc., he's ALL IN!!!

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Sounds like our Drama Queen collies who whimper at the very sight of a grooming tool, but if I can get Tim to stand there feeding them one bite at a time of the venison or salmon dry kibble, they will tolerate all kinds of dematting and brushing. Food! Wild things to chase! A lesson here in how incentives and mental states can make us ignore physical discomfort and pain.

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Yup, Lolo to the core, LOVES his groomer, always happy to see her, but never wants me to actually leave him to be bathed.

Even though he loves being clean, however briefly it lasts. ;-)

And grooming tools = implements of torture. Just ask him.

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I accidentally double posted one of my haiku posts, and later on posted two different posts with identical titles, and I'm pretty tech savvy. So double oops. It happens to the best of us.

@hlezama's post reminds me of a terrible story in our neighborhood, that my sister told me happened to a school friend of hers, but it's haunted me since childhood, so I'll leave it at that.

I have no desire to depress everyone.

Instead, I'll close with some of my favorite memories about Ebony, which shows just a little of what an outstanding, special, and truly noble dog she was.

We moved to Santa Monica shortly after we got her, and to Venice Beach two years later, both of which Ebony absolutely loved.

She was very laid back and nonaggressive, like most Newfies, but if we were walking along the beach and she spied a gathering of sandpipers near the surf, she would slow down and start stalking them.

You haven't seen anything until you've seen an adult female Newfie, all 135 pounds of her, solid black against the pale sand, trying to look inconspicuous while stalking a flock of resting seabirds.

But then she would suddenly leap forward with a deep bark, scatter the lot, and settle into a laid back walk once more. Her job was done.

Naturally, dogs were not technically allowed on the beach, but although I had friends who had been ticketed for having their dogs on the sand, I saw cops all the time and they just smiled and waved.

I finally asked one of the Beach Patrol officers about it one day, while standing with Ebony safely on the Venice Pier, where dogs were allowed.

He told me that, since she was always clearly under my control, even when she was offlead, and was well-behaved and not bothering other beachgoers, and since I was a small and attractive woman, they would much rather see me on the beach with my big dog than without her.

Kudos to the cops.

I remember one Saturday around noon, when a guy walked up to me, clearly drunk from the night before. And, true to her breed, Ebony showed no aggression, but simply placed herself between me and the man, as she didn't trust him.

Slurring his words slightly, he asked me if I was walking a bear.

And, because I believe that inane questions are completely deserving of smartass responses, I told him that yes, indeed I was walking my bear, and he'd best keep his distance.

About that time, a male friend from college spotted us, and came over to see if the guy was bothering me, at which point the man stumbled on his way.

But my favorite thing about Ebony was her sense of humor, which was more wry and finely developed than any other dog I've ever known.

As one example, there was a seriously annoying Pomeranian that lived a couple of blocks from us, and every time we walked near her, she would come over and try to "take on" Ebony, despite Ebony being well over ten times her size.

She also regularly took on a friend's male Newfie, who lived around the corner from us, and a couple of large Great Pyrenees that lived in the opposite direction.

One afternoon, the Pomeranian decided yet again to harass Ebony, but for once her owner was with her, and Ebony made a decision.

She looked pointedly at the women who owned the dog, then down at the yapping dog, then back at the woman, as if to say, "Sorry, but this needs to be done," and set one massive paw on the little dog's shoulders, gently pressed her to the ground, and held her there.

The little dog yapped, squirmed, whined, yapped some more, and Ebony didn't move.

Finally, she stopped yapping for a moment and lay still, at which point, on cue, Ebony lifted her paw to release her.

That little Pom continued harassing all the big dogs on the beach . . . except for Ebony. When we walked along the beach, she crossed to the other side of the boardwalk to watch us go.

But my favorite story of Ebony on the beach happened when my mom was walking her, and I was still at work.

I wish I'd been there to see it. ;-)

Ebony had a game she'd developed on her own that she played with us.

She'd usually keep up with us on our way away from home, but on our way back, she would lag farther and farther behind, on lead or off. She wasn't ready to go home yet.

But every so often, out of the blue, she'd decide to dump one of us . . . she would come up behind us, and catch us with her shoulder right behind the knee, which meant that we were definitely going down, and did. Frequently.

But she never, not once, pulled her little trick anywhere but on soft sand or grass. Not only was she well aware of her size, and strength, but she instinctively knew not to cause us to fall on hard ground.

Once we moved to Venice, we had the only chain link fence on our block, which the cops used from time to throw some misbehaving beachgoer against to cuff them.

And, somehow, every single beach cop knew our dog's name. Every one. And she always loved the cops (and everyone else).

And, have I ever mentioned that, in the 70s, the beach cops in Venice and Santa Monica, who mostly patrolled using ten speed bikes, were also some of the best looking cops of all time?

No, I never noticed. Ha!

Anyway, my mom and Ebony were walking down the beach one day, when Ebony decided, God only knows why, to dump one of the cops!

My mom saw it happening, but not soon enough to warn the guy, who predictably went down in the soft sand, as we always did.

He came up with his billy club in hand, great reflexes, only to be greeted by a smiling goofy Newfie, who was clearly enjoying herself thoroughly; and my mom, who I'm pretty certain was most likely looking stricken.

To his credit, the cop, having seen Ebony dump my mom and myself on multiple occasions, started laughing, and all but couldn't stop. My mom was laughing too.

Ebony, I'm sure, was elated.

Her job, once more, was done. ;-)

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I love these stories!!! The drunk and "Why yes, I am walking a bear," the massive paw putting the sassy harassing Pomeranian in her place, and the "dumping" game, and the way these beach patrol cops (sound like Baywatch material if they'd take off the shirts) knew this one dog by name, and EVERY detail about these tales - epic! - and here you have another entry to your anthology. I can't even resteem it - it's a comment! - and because you have actually said you might put this book together, I won't repost it. (Unless you think I should.) THANK YOU for this!!!!

#Ebony, the best dog ever,

never mind that millions of dog owners have the Best Dog Ever.
And none of them is wrong. :)

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P.S. I'm gratified to hear that you, too, doubled a post recently - and I even remember it offhand. (Now that you mentioned it.) Thank you! I feel vindicated. :)

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You're welcome!

As with everything in life, the sad memories are overshadowed, and vastly outnumbered, by the happy, sweet, funny, and just plain goofy ones.

Like the little girl with the ice cream cone, in Venice, who asked to pet my huge dog, which thrilled Ebony, who absolutely adored children.

Of course, she was a dog, and also adored food of all kinds, and while the little girl and I were chatting, Ebony quietly snarfed the entire scoop of ice cream from atop her waffle cone. Bad dog.

Naturally, I bought her the child a new cone, and gave Ebony the pre-licked waffle cone.

Dogs will be dogs, even those of noble manner.
;-)

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Another great Ebony story. I love them all!
Indeed,
Dogs will be dogs, even those of noble manner. ;-)

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