PATIENCE
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The patience of a person is being tested when they think they have everything but still being doubted. It also measures how that person would react when someone tests their bravery despite their capabilities. It's being tested when someone provokes your worth to everyone. That's why we must practice how to be patient most of the time.
Have you noticed why tolerance is being practised for those service provider? Why they said that "the customer is always right?" Even though we think that customer is being wrong sometimes. However, if we will be open up our mind and understand things. We can think clearly why that tag line was created.
Let's just make an example to make it clear. For example, the customer is mad because he didn't receive the things he really wanted. Of course, that customer will be mad and gets wild. But if that customer will act like that. Well, we can say she/he is not right too. We will just maximize our tolerance so that we can explain things clearly. Remember having a clear mind makes us think clearly and can handle the situation. If the fire will lit it with another fire, it will explode for sure.
By thinking that customer has it's right. We won't think of fighting and we will just explain why it happens. By the time we will be talking with a calm voice, it will reflect for those who will listen from it. Because of it, the fire will be off and the conversation will flow smoothly.
You are strong or you are brave. There's no doubt that you are one. But before you'll decide to fight back because you don't want to be humiliated. Think first what will happen after this. Who will suffer the most by not eating your pride even once? Also, consider thinking if this will be worth to fight. Put it in your mind that you have a choice to ignore and leave it instead.
That's why being patient doesn't mean you're afraid or you're proving them correctly what they thought of you. By doing that you just prove to yourself that you are wiser than them. The practice of being patient just showing them that you're not that weak to bite the bait.
They will then understand that you're not just strong or brave. But you are a professional in handling things personally. All of us don't need to fight back to let them know that they're the one who is wrong. By stopping ourselves it just mean that we are grown up as man. Only a child will fight back because they're not understanding the situation.
Act like an adult and always patience rule your mind.
Thank you for reading
d' dreamboy,
@mrnightmare89