HOW TO EDUCATE YOUR CHILDREN IN SEXUALITY FROM THE EARLY STAGES OF CHILDHOOD
of parents and children
Learn how to train your children in one of the most important areas of their life, in a comprehensive and professional way, there are many orientations and practical material in sex education for children that will help them orient themselves about the necessary rules and behavior as parents that we must have in order to achieve a healthy sexuality in our children
These guidelines, both at a professional or comprehensive level, are truly designed for parents who have young children, which aims to teach parents how to educate children in sexuality at an early age of infancy.
Many parents have misrepresented this upbringing and made many mistakes trying to isolate or overlook the issue.
Educating in sexuality is not just an isolated conversation, it is an intentional educational process from the time the child is small until he is young, that is why I encourage you today to be able to scrutinize and direct your children on this topic so important for their future life.
Many parents believe that exploring the world from 0 to 4 years old is something that does not make sense and they think that it is not relevant to try and they think what are we going to do at this age. However, it is important to say that sexuality issues should not start in adolescence, sexuality issues should start from when our children are young.
Starting a conversation about sexuality early and continuing that conversation as the child grows older is the best sex education strategy. It allows parents to avoid giving a big talk when the child reaches adolescence, when they may think they already have the information and will not be receptive. When talking to your children about sex, it is important to explain things to them in a way that your child can understand, given her age and level of development.
Sex education begins from the moment the child is young in those moments of interacting with others where he is knowing himself.
Issues of sexuality should not appear in adolescence, issues of sexuality should appear from when children are young, understanding that human beings are sexed beings since we are born, therefore we must bear in mind that we are going to address the issue of sexuality from that they are small.
Talking about sexuality is not just talking about genitality, let's talk about knowing each other, respecting each other, loving each other and interacting healthily with others
Our intervention as a parent in this stage from 0 to 4 years is not about giving lessons that even the baby or child cannot understand, we are not talking about that but about building good bases on which deeper conversations are started
Below I will present some ideas or examples to put them into practice that can help you which I have based them according to the research that I have studied and investigated and that will really be the basis to promote it in a healthy way, among them the following can be mentioned:
1.- Provide affection, this gives security, giving and receiving love is intimately related to sexuality and has its roots from the beginning of life, so the doctors talk to us about talking to the baby since it is in the womb, our babies should feel accepted valued loved ones ... and we must always express and show affection.
2.- Physical contact, eye contact and warm words give the baby a feeling of affection and security that will be the basis for a healthy sexuality the more loved, the more accepted, the more admired the child feels, it will be better for him to interact in the future with other people
When we provide love based on respect he will learn to interpret respect as an indispensable element in all expressions of love, receiving this love promotes the process of affirmations of masculinity of the boy or femininity of the girl
In addition to finding many educational guides and professional orientations related to sexual orientation in children at an early age, I think it is convenient to say that more than an orientation based on letters and advice, it reaches its maximum level with the example when parents become aware of the importance of our behavior towards them because from our actions surely the boy or girl will be promoting their sexual orientation in a healthy and balanced way.
The main development in children from 0 to 4 years old begins with the actions demonstrated by parents, which indicates that it is at this age that parents begin to promote sexuality in boys and girls, so we must be very careful since they are in the mother's womb until they are born to correctly guide their sexuality.
Reference: Guide: Focus Focus on the family.
