Don't rush to 'fit-in'!

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The struggle of fitting in is real. Because it's always hurt to find ourselves 'different' from the group, family, and friends. We try to fit in many ways, not just in a friend circle but also psychologically. You will see a lot of people don't share what they really think rather support others. Because they don't want to left away, they want the same acceptance and they fear not getting acceptance.

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But if you feel you are not the same, you feel and think differently then you must stand out. It's okay to seek social acceptance but it's not okay to oppress your own self. Stand out the way you are, embrace your difference. Don't give away your productive time on trying to fit it.

Ask yourself, what you really want? I know that most of us want to fit in but deep inside they want to stand out the way they are. Just we need that courage to take that action. You may notice it in your family. Like, you felt the black ship of the family, maybe in your friend circle you are the wired one. We have to understand that what we are not but want to be or at least try to show other's tp becomes with 'pretending'.

We have to be fake to us if we don't feel we are the same but want to. And the stress, mental pressure comes from this unnecessary trying is enormous. So it's always better to be courageous to stand out. Love yourself that you are different, you are special. Embrace that you born this way and don't feel the same.

It's totally okay to be different. Think, if the world has only one color how boring it would be. So, don't rush to fit it!



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I'm the weirdo in my friends group but that's okat they love me as I am, we have differents type of opinions, we can not please everyone except us. I used to be like that, trying hard to fit in but I ended hating everyone, so, always be true to yourself is the only thing that really matters some people will know that with time.

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