The balance on career, self-care and family - - my ways -LOH 294
I would not say I have balanced my life alongside with my career and my family but I will say I have been on the journey already and I'm loving it. You see, for years I have been living in a lie that for me to show love to my family, for me to show u care for them ,I have to let go of my feelings,my own career,I have to let go of looking after myself, that if I didn't do so, I will be seen as a selfish person and for years I was living in that bondage thinking that is life which is isn't .
Later on, I learnt that taking care of oneself, caring about one's feelings doesn't tag one as being selfish rather it is selflove, I learnt that no matter what, in all situation selflove is very important,then I started working on how to balance my life, my career and my responsibilities to my family.
Sone tips I started working with are giving maximum attention to every area at that moment it needs it. I face the most important thing every single day, I know my work needs attention most weekends ,so because of that I don't schedule my responsibility to my family to weekends, I attend to them on weekdays like laundry, cleaning the house , restocking groceries and foodstuffs. Once it's weekend,I let my family know they
leave me to focus on my career unless the issue is very important than that my career at that moment and it's emergency like to be treated urgently.
There are some days I just give myself rest that I decline orders and do nothing at home as well even when my sister would find something for one to do, I will tell her that's today is for me to rest. I make sure I don't do what is more than my capacity . Being on my journey to perfect the balance between my life ,career and my family has been sweet because I'm not worn out still I'm able to deliver at all area I'm needed to.
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In today's fast paced world, it is very necessary to take some time for one's self. I don't think it's selfish at all; time is needed for refreshment and regrouping and if one doesn't take that time, then burn out is in the future! You can't give your best to family and work if you are just too burned out and stressed to do anything!
Thank you for sharing, and have a lovely day! !LADY
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Exactly, when one finally breakdown, even the family osn is projecting to show love won't get the love at the end of the day and it will be loss on all side. Thank you so much for stopping by.
Have a lovely day as well ❤️
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