RE: A Serious Headache ... Toxic Visitor

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Wow, yes it shows great maturity and restraint to actually tell this lady what you know to be true. PERHAPS it will help her to come to grips with her own problems, and help her get past the hangups that are holding her back so badly. If that is the message she took from you, maybe it will help.

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She probably won't, but that's her problem and not mine. I also just refuse to let that become my problem. Made wise through harm and shame, learned the hard way. I fought hard enough to get to where I am today. And I had to do that fight alone, and never expected anyone else to do it for me. I'm not there yet ... still enough things that I have to improve myself for which I need my energy badly enough. So the last thing I need is an energy-draining person in my life, no matter what. Of course I listen when someone needs it, I want to give advice ... but if I can estimate in advance that nothing will be done with it, it is a waste of my time and energy. And listen once and give advice ... fine. But make it a habit without taking action yourself or giving back ... No way. Not anymore. I've accepted it at my expense for TOO long. And I will not let that happen again after I myself have been seriously destroyed. The disadvantage of being highly sensitive is that they know where to find you.

Anyway ... thank you for visiting my post and your thoughtful comment. Very much appreciated!!!

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