ESP/ENG ¡Angel o Demonio! / Angel or Demon!

In previous publications I have told you a little about myself, my little Lulu who is my pet, my profession, my parents and my friends; today I want to share about me, but from the perspective and eyes of a friend who has let me know in such a short time that we have known each other that I can count on him for any problem as long as it is within his reach.

I think that people are fleeting and each one has a ticket on our path called life, some will stay in a long journey others will be momentary; the important thing is that each individual will leave traces in our lives and although some live in good and bad memories, I personally prefer to stay with each good fragment, with those sincere laughs, with those pleasant moments that when remembering my face lights up and is filled with an infinite smile.

Gabriel the friend who described me with words that filled me with nostalgia and many smiles told me the following words:

Alejandro la vida no es fácil, cada quien vive de experiencias y momentos, imagínate los cactus son muchos y tienen diferentes especies, lo más llamativo de esto es que aun en la misma especie ningún cactus es igual al otro. Cada uno crece a su propio ritmo.

Alejandro life is not easy, everyone lives from experiences and moments, imagine the cactus are many and have different species, the most striking thing about this is that even in the same species no cactus is equal to the other. Each one grows at its own pace.

Con esto te quiero decir que muchas veces puede que falles como persona, como amigo, como hijo, como pareja, como nieto, como sobrino, como hermano, entre otras cosas, es oportuno destacar que no siempre haces lo correcto, tienes cicatrices, algunas personas te aman otras te odian, en lo que te he conocido te he visto hacer cosas buenas y malas, algunas veces sales sin peinarte otros días si te peinas, pero lo más importante y lo que me he dado cuenta es que no pretendes ser alguien que no eres; ¡Eres quien eres! eres carismático, parlanchín, compulsivo, amigable, extrovertido algunas veces un poco loco, eres de las personas que quiere con el corazón y entrega lo mejor de sí para hacer sentir bien a los demás y lo mejor de todo sin esperar nada a cambio.

With this I want to say that many times you may fail as a person, as a friend, as a son, as a partner, as a grandson, as a nephew, as a brother, among other things, it is appropriate to note that you do not always do the right thing, you have scars, some people love you others hate you, in what I have known you I have seen you do good and bad things, sometimes you go out without combing your hair other days if you comb your hair, but the most important thing and what I have realized is that you do not pretend to be someone you are not; You are who you are! You are charismatic, talkative, compulsive, friendly, outgoing, sometimes a little crazy, you are one of those people who love with your heart and give the best of yourself to make others feel good and best of all without expecting anything in return.

Podría decir que aquella persona que logra sacar tu lado malo lo hace y eso te convierte en demonio, aunque las personas que logran aprovechar tu lado bueno, llegan a descubrir que eres un Angel dispuesto siempre ayudar. Una especie de Angel o Demonio, depende de los ojos que te vean. Lástima que muchas personas no valoran esas acciones buenas que haces por ellos aun sabiendo de que todo es por su bien.

I could say that the person who manages to bring out your bad side does it and that makes you a demon, although people who manage to take advantage of your good side, come to discover that you are an Angel always ready to help. A kind of Angel or Demon, depending on the eyes that see you. Too bad that many people do not value those good deeds you do for them even knowing that everything is for their good.

Considero que de bebes aprender a soltar, hay personas el cual están actualmente siendo una tranca para tu vida, sé que es difícil decirle adiós a alguien a quien aprecias, pero ten en cuenta primero el amor propio; recuerda los árboles en temporadas cambian sus hojas y estas no vuelven a él, sus raíces por el contrario siempre están allí haciéndose más fuertes, lo mismo pasa con las personas que día a día tienes a tu alrededor, compárate con el árbol que cambia sus hojas, pero no sus raíces. No te hará una mala persona el sacar a alguien a de tu vida, entiendo que es difícil ya que en algún momento estuvieron en los tragos dulces y amargos de tu vida y eso se aprecia, pero hay momentos en los cuales toca decir adiós.

I believe that as babies you learn to let go, there are people who are currently being a block to your life, I know it is difficult to say goodbye to someone you appreciate, but keep in mind first the self-love, remember the trees in seasons change their leaves and these do not return to him, his roots on the contrary are always there getting stronger, the same happens with the people you have around you every day, compare yourself with the tree that changes its leaves, but not its roots. It will not make you a bad person to take someone out of your life, I understand that it is difficult because at some point they were in the sweet and bitter drinks of your life and that is appreciated, but there are times when it is time to say goodbye.

Quiero que sepas que las vivencias no determinan lo que somos, no eres mala persona por aquellos momentos de ira, por decir que no, por estar en discrepancia por la opinión de otros, no querer ir a una reunión de amigos, querer tener tiempo exclusivo para ti, elegir lo que te trae paz, pienso que tienes algunos tornillos sueltos, pero eres una gran persona.

I want you to know that experiences do not determine who we are, you are not a bad person for those moments of anger, for saying no, for being in disagreement for the opinion of others, not wanting to go to a meeting with friends, wanting to have exclusive time for yourself, choosing what brings you peace, I think you have some loose screws, but you are a great person.

Me despido diciéndote de que puedes contar conmigo para lo que este a mi alcance ayudarte, tienes un amigo hermano el cual estará para cuando necesites hablar, disfrutar, despejar tu mente. Está de más decirte que eres buena persona y que llegaras cuán lejos te lo propongas.

I say goodbye telling you that you can count on me for whatever I can do to help you, you have a friend brother who will be there when you need to talk, to enjoy, to clear your mind. Needless to say that you are a good person and that you will go as far as you propose.

I must admit that Gabriel's words made me reflect on some of the events I have lived, I only ask God to be the one who directs my steps and to be the one who guides me and gives me the strength to continue in this journey of life that as Gabriel says I can be an Angel or a demon.