Connections, Preferences or maybe Favoritism !!!

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I think you all are familiar with the word "favoritism", an unfair preference, treatment to an individual or maybe something.

In other words, we can say partiality...

Well, what do you think about that? have you have faced this favoritism in person in real life? How much worst you felt so far?


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A few days ago I have captured this picture...Location: Kharkiv Oblast, Ukraine


I know I write shitty things but that doesn't matter until I am hurting someone. I believe one day after writing all these shitty topics, I will be able to write something good. Whatever...

Let's talk about Favoritism...

First of all, there is a slight difference between preference favoritism. Suppose, you have options to choose and you like all of them but then you came to know, you can only take one and on that note, you are choosing only one thing over another thing. That's what I think called preference, which is not completely unfair.

But favoritism is you are picking or choosing someone or something unfairly, again and again, every single time without thinking twice...


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Shinny Ice was looking like crystals...Location: Kharkiv Oblast, Ukraine


Let me share one of my personal life experience...


I am the firstborn or first child of my entire family from my dad's side and also a brown girl. Yes, I am a brown girl. 2 years later my first cousin was born with a fair/ white skin or I can call it bright skin. And At that time I realized and experienced favoritism from my Grandmother.

Don't take it otherwise, many of you might think, oh you are wrong, this is not favoritism, she loved all her grandchildren, maybe she loved her a little bit more... LOLL..

Well, I am not here to justify anything or for any kind of justification. I am sharing my personal experiences...


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I was lucky enough to manage some pictures on the last day of winter. Ice was melting though.


I was a child so I had no idea about these sort of things, I just saw my grandmother made favourite dishes for my cousin, my cousin used to love pickles and my grandmother used to make for her, I guess she never knew what I like. Because I was a brown girl.

However, parents don't do favoritism towards one child in particular though many of us think that my mother or dad loves my brother or sister more than me... LOL

This is true, believe it or not it doesn't matter because this exactly happened in my childhood. This is the reality of life where we always experience discrimination, preferences, and favoritism.


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Last Ice of the year...


In fact, if you are looking for a good job, you will see how connections are important because without connections it's impossible to get a good job. Plus, after the interview, you will realize that the company is going to choose some specific people who has recommendations. I mean they have preferences already and last of course, how much talent you are, it doesn't even matter because of favoritism.


Now, many of you might argue with me so before the argument, let me clear the thing. Well, to be honest, this is the system of the Bangladeshi Job sector. I did the job for 3 years with 2 different companies and faced many interviews so I know how things work.

Talent doesn't matter as long as you have high recommendations and connections.


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Thanks for reading this post...


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