What if we decide to lose so that we can win in other ways?

over 3 years ago

Nobody wants to be a loser, nobody likes to get along with any loser.

When I look back to some of my memories, how we used to befriend so many people. And now, we maintain class, we follow the social rule of status. It sounds selfish, maybe we also have some friends who have fewer accomplishments than us. But in the end, we usually get along with the people who match us.

I'm not here to tell what is right or wrong, what we need to do or not because it's totally our choice how we want to live our life!

But one thing we must learn and that is 'seeing things from other's perspective'. I'm saying this because what we consider an accomplishment, maybe someone doesn't actually want that in life. So, hugging others' by our own standard is very wrong. But this is a different argument I'm focusing on to make clear one thing. And that is, sometimes it's okay to choose to lose. Because sometimes losing can also make us a winner in other ways.

Let me give you my own life example...

I decided to leave my career after I became a mother. I have said this several times. What I'm gonna share with you today is, people still think that I didn't reach the point where I supposed to. I was a straight 'A' from the very beginning of my education, I had a lucrative job. Maybe that's what makes people think these ways. But the thing is, I never consider myself a loser. Because I have achieved so many things in other ways. I would never be in this position if I didn't choose to leave my career.

Yeah, I had to work hard to develop my second option. I had to adjust to so many things, I had to lose and leave many of my ambitions. But in the end, how I'm feeling about my overall life that's what really matters, no? And I would say, I was never been so happy in my entire adult life.

So you see, life comes with different choices. We just need the patience to reach a point. We may not get what we wanted, our life may change its path; all these may make you feel like you are a loser. But know that, losing something can also make a path to win in other ways.

Discover the path!

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