Acting Too Quickly... You Don't Want To Regret Your Actions

Imagine you gave your friend a hot slap only to find out that your friend did nothing wrong...

How would you feel? Ashamed? Or you'd just find something to cover up.

What if you found out you were the cause of what you thought your friend caused?

You would get to accept that you acted too quickly, you were wrong.

Acting too quickly has in no way helped situations especially when it involves the matters of the heart. We've seen in movies a lot and even in our neighborhood how this has caused home to break apart, friends become enemies, and trust is destroyed.

I heard of a story about a girl who poured hot water on her roommate body just because she heard that her roommate was flirting with her boyfriend. The roommate tried explaining everything but she didn't allow it but instead she let her angry took over and destroyed her roommate's skin. Later she found out that it was all a lie, the roommate forgave her but they couldn't live together anymore.

Imagine the scar she gave to her roommate just because she acted too quickly and very rashly.

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Communication is a very vital skill to possess in such situations, allow them to explain even if you think you're right. People who act on one part of a story always miss the mark and end up hurting someone or themselves. If she had listened to her roommate's explanation, maybe things wouldn't have turned out that way but she didn't.

A guy who was trying to surprise his girlfriend with a marriage proposal in a kinda unusual way ended up losing the girl because she acted too quickly on everything he did and brought up all his past mistakes with a "Let's end this relationship" sentence. It may be a wonder why it had to end that way when the guy was only trying to be romantic but then.... Acting too quickly happened.

Trust, patience and peace of mind

These are needed in a situation where you're not sure of what really happened. Don't act on what others say, stay calm and hear from both or more sides of the story to be clear on what step to take.

Even about our health, taking medications on our own without going for test or asking for directions may be dangerous for us. You see people taking paracetamol for a pain they're feeling in their chest or even eyes... They just want to get well immediately and act too quickly.

And with our words, saying whatever comes to mind is also acting too quickly. Think, think, and think again before you say words. Don't be quick to condemn or attack someone, get facts and make sure to take the right decision by staying calm.

Act quickly... Make a mistake... You regret it

Nobody wants to be in such a position so avoid acting too quickly no matter what.

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Imagine you gave your friend a hot slap only to find out that your friend did nothing wrong...

I will beg him or her immediately for my wrong.

How would you feel? Ashamed? Or you'd just find something to cover up.

I will feel ashamed of myself because if have ask her or him before slapping his or her face, I will have that am on a wrong side.

So that is good to ask questions before judge anyone, I beg for disgrace him or her in the public or private.

What if you found out you were the cause of what you thought your friend caused?

I will beg for my wrong action and fine something to replace the pain Even thought nothing can replace such, but the heart to show how sorry I am.

Acting too quickly has in no way helped situations especially when it involves the matters of the heart. We've seen in movies a lot and even in our neighborhood how this has caused home to break apart, friends become enemies, and trust is destroyed.

I heard of a story about a girl who poured hot water on her roommate body just because she heard that her roommate was flirting with her boyfriend. The roommate tried explaining everything but she didn't allow it but instead she let her angry took over and destroyed her roommate's skin. Later she found out that it was all a lie, the roommate forgave her but they couldn't live together anymore.

Imagine the scar she gave to her roommate just because she acted too quickly and very rashly

Haha this is very bad, the person is so heartless and wicked, she did not even think about the consequence or out come of her actions.

That is not good, she too far in judgement, at least before you can do or punish someone for her offend, you need to make your proper finding.

Because people are wicked they love to scarer a good relationship, and all they will do is bring up misunderstanding among good relationship.

She have hear her out and find out how true is it before doing that, she allow her weakness to put her in to trouble, because they family of the lady will not take easy with her.

And people will be seen her as bad thing, that is we need to always think deeply and rethink before taking any decisions, we should not look at the advantage but we should look at the disadvantage of it.

Because if she thinks about the disadvantage how she will spoiled her friend skin and what will happen to herself. How people will see her as a bad friend and bad person, her own name that will spoiled.

Because of boy friend, if to say the boy leave her and marry another person will she kill herself or boyfriend, she will even do that because for a person do this to her fellow friend.

Definitely she can kill and with this action have she not alot the boyfriend because who will marry a person like her, no mother will allow her to marry their son, they won't allow her to kill all the family.

And it will be hard for her to find a good husband, to get work because they will believe she will destory their organization.

Communication is a very vital skill to possess in such situations, allow them to explain even if you think you're right. People who act on one part of a story always miss the mark and end up hurting someone or themselves. If she had listened to her roommate's explanation, maybe things wouldn't have turned out that way but she didn't.

Yes now communication is very important, we should never hear one side of story, this is what make some people to be in prison and harm the future.

If she have listen to her friends she won't fall into such problem.

A guy who was trying to surprise his girlfriend with a marriage proposal in a kinda unusual way ended up losing the girl because she acted too quickly on everything he did and brought up all his past mistakes with a "Let's end this relationship" sentence. It may be a wonder why it had to end that way when the guy was only trying to be romantic but then.... Acting too quickly happened

What does she expects, no one will witness such and continue in such relationship, to continue is like his putting his life danger by himself.

Trust, patience and peace of mind

These are needed in a situation where you're not sure of what really happened. Don't act on what others say, stay calm and hear from both or more sides of the story to be clear on what step to take.

Yes now we all need the three the keys all the time, so that we will not regret or put ourselves into trouble, and we need to be careful of the information we hear.

And we should know that is not the information are right.

Even about our health, taking medications on our own without going for test or asking for directions may be dangerous for us. You see people taking paracetamol for a pain they're feeling in their chest or even eyes... They just want to get well immediately and act too quickly.

Yes now many people have harm and kill themselves out of ignorance, because sometimes you see some signs and symptoms of malaria.

That does not mean that you have malaria it might be another thing entirely you will be taking medication for malaria.

That is bad, thank for this great lesson, people must learn from This.


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Patience is the key just like you've made mention earlier...nice write up... that was educating

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Most times we allow anger to cloud our judgement. We also judge people without giving them opportunity to explain themselves and most times we end up discovering that we are the ones at fault

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What if you found out you were the cause of what you thought your friend caused?

Bring in this kind of situation can be very embarrassing. The shame you'd feel would be massive.

One should learn to control his actions and reaction to avoid drastic occurrences.


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-Hi! Hehe Agreed with everything you said!. Well, it's not good to act too quickly on everything! Because we need to look at every angle. There are things that we see or read or hear "as is" or sometimes there are things that a person doing a particular thing, because that is for them it's the best, yet each person has its way of understanding. We should be sensitive in everything, Think first before uttered a word or do some actions because, in everything, there is always a connecting circumstance that only the person feels or know it.

And if that happened to me that someone did something like that, judged me the wrong way. Hmmm, I will still forgive because, that person also doesn't know the real score..aha! It's not good he/she act too quickly to judge or to say opinion, sometimes we did it with good intention because we are concerned with the other person so we say or did that. But of course, few doing it for bullying or with bad intentions. Hehe but if it's on my side. I will just ignore will just laugh or smile on that matter if not too damaging hehe. I don't know if this kind of character of mine is bad or what. I don't like to store bad thoughts or hatred against other people, I easily forgive but if the thing is damaging my dignity too much or damaging my family...well it's a different story, hehe I have my volcanic side. But as much as possible I want a peaceful life, and not dreaming of stocking bad feelings and thoughts against others even if they doing not good to me. I learned to let everything be lifted to God. As long as I can endure things. This is an awesome and helpful article, Sis @merit.ahama ! A must-read! God bless you always! Stay safe! Have a blessed morning!❤❤💚🌷

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It's important we learn to control our emotions/outburst. A lot of things could go wrong if we are not mindful of how we react to things, especially when angry.


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How kind the roommate was, but I guess the girl lost one of the special issues just because of aggression and hustle.
Many times we lose temperament so quickly that outcomes are horrifying.
Not listening to others' viewpoints either or by only knowing the headlines from others. Our reaction gives us nothing then the guilty.
It's better to have patience and think quietly before showing a reaction or taking another step.

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The roommate incident was horrible, wasn't it? She gave her the body pain as well as emotional pain.

You have explained well @merit.ahama by casting the relevant example. Acting quickly often brings us shame. Though I am a person who doesn't respond that quickly in most of the situations but at times when I did that, I regret.

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This is so true! Acting without having all the facts, can lead to misunderstandings and sometimes dire consequences. The even more sad thing is when people act by creating gossip around misunderstandings based on not having all the facts to hand. I witnessed this today at the playground outside my childrens' school. There was an incident at the end of last school term that some of the parents were STILL talking about amongst themselves...well gossiping about...and they had the complete wrong end of the stick whilst deriding one person who had nothing to do with the incident, but because they only heard half the story, they have mistakenly believed that this person was involved. It's sad and they will have egg on their face when the truth comes out. I came to your post via @dreemport :-)

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Nice illustration to my write up, gossiping brings up these issues of acting quickly.
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This is just perfect.... Thanks for sharing this piece... I learnt a lot from this. Indeed acting too quickly can be deadly. You should always think before you act....

It's a pity a girl ended up having some scars because her roommate acted quickly. Why would she even go to such an extent of pouring hot water on her friend because of what she heard which isn't even true?

We must not be quick to condemn or attack others so as not to regret it.

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Indeed, thank God the girl didn't end up dying the process of such anger and acting quickly. Thanks for stopping by


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