The best way to solve a problem is to listen to both parties

Hi Hive Learners, Happy doing activities for all of you, keep up the enthusiasm for writing on the hive platform and happy reading for you hives, hopefully you are always in good condition in doing your various activities out there. Well, last week's journey has gone well, now we are all with a cool head and full of enthusiasm. I'm sure if we live it all positively we will definitely get good things for perfect days. Now, we have entered the 29th week of issue 01. Like the previous contests that we missed, this week's contest has also had a very interesting theme, namely the "Middle Man" theme.

Being a mediator in other people's problems is a very noble act in my opinion, many people don't want to do it, the reason is because they don't want to interfere in other people's problems. But in my opinion, people arguing actually happens because sometimes they both have problems that are difficult for them to solve, so they have to involve a third person to come up with a good solution.

To be a good mediator, we must do 2 supporting factors, so that both parties can accept it clearly. The first factor, before we comment at length with them, you should first ask what problems they both have, now at this stage you should not only listen to one party but be a good listener for both parties. Second, calm down their conditions and situation without taking sides with anyone, this attitude you must do as well as possible, if you are not fair to both of them of course they will never trust you, and of course the problem will be more difficult to solve between the two parties.

Now talking about the case of being a mediator, I have experienced it, in my family a few years ago, my younger sister had a fight with my older sister's brother, they argued very badly at that time because of a misunderstanding between their respective partners. At that time it happened when I came home, and I watched it, after listening to them arguing I started to take a deep breath, then dismissed their argument and invited them to have a chat to resolve this issue. We chatted for a very long time, took about 2 hours 30 minutes, they had a lot to say and after hearing both I found a solution and called their partner to clarify the issue. As a result, it turned out that this matter was a misunderstanding between the two of them. They're not shy about apologizing to each other and hugging at the same time, well after that incident, they're even closer now, I'm really happy with this. It turns out that being an intermediary is a very beautiful thing. So don't be afraid to do good, greetings from me @arasiko.