He who seek guidance won't miss his way
Happy sunday famz...
Today kinda seems uneventful for me and the reason is not far fetched, there was no light since yesterday uptil now.... My system was down, my power bank did its best powering up my two phones twice but since I didn't charge it fully too, the battery got drained so I was just left with my two phones since morning
I am a kind of person that hate troubling people for assistance, it makes me feel somehow as I do feel like I am disturbing them, so if asking for help was not an issue for me, the normal and right thing I should have done was to go out and look for a place to charge but I feel so reluctant to do that but I had a plan...
The plan was to travel to my former location, i left my gen with my sister so i just need to move there for today and use the generator to power up my tools incase they don't have light too....
I plan to set this in motion by 4p.m incase they do not on the light but fortunately for me, the man who wanted to do some work for me came earlier and while gisting with him, he seems friendly so i asked him if there is a place i can use money to charge my phone...
He was like I don't need that, the landlord on gen everyday and I can just give the gatekeeper to charge for me, oh my my, why didn't my brain think about this all this while lol... what I am looking for is actually right there in my compound and I saw that generator is being on daily but it never crossed my mind I can use that to my advantage until I ask that man who showed me the path...
I went to meet the gate keeper and he told me the gen would be on soon, not up to an hour, he powered upthe gen and I was able to charge all my gadget and also able to do my work....
So the thing is if I didn't ask the man for guidance, I would have wasted transport fare back to my former area, the stress of hold up/go slow and having to sleep out.. Just because I refuse to seek guidance...
I know it is hard for some people who are like me to seek for help even though we are always ready to help others, that is just how we are designed but still if you have the chance to ask for help, you should because what you are going to look for in sokoto[state in nigeria] may be in your sokoto[pocket]....
A problem discussed is a problem half solved, *so right now I have finally solve the light ish too, I don't need inverter, I don't need a generator either, my landlord gen got me covered 🕺🎈🎉🎈
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There are people like you that it is hard for us to seek help because I think that one bothers people, many things have happened to me for not asking for help in time, but at my age I do not learn hahaha. Like you I am always ready to help ... ahhh but I need help there it is difficult to ask for it.
i think it is because we are so used to it and we just don't want to bother others, we love to be independent and solve our ish by ourself😇
Yes me too had a hesitation to ask someone for help BUT if it is really needed, I will.
yea no point in suffering in silence when there is chance those people can help
So we really need to learn how to ask some help if needed. We don't need to be shy.
Yay! 🤗
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For me, I used to wait until the last minute to ask for help. Asking for help can be hard and seem a burden to the people you're asking. Nowadays, I just ask whenever I need help. Time is of the essence, can't wait until it's too late.
i guess you have outgrown that habit of not asking for help
Yes, it many cases. I do sometimes revert back to it.
Some people are so shy to see help but someone like me is not shy
Speak so that you can be helped
If you ask, you won't get lost
i trust you
A problem shared is half solved specially a problem shared to the right person because we have people that will spread your problems to the whole world and end up adding more problems to you but it's always good to ask questions, thank God you didn't waste energy and transport when what you needed was right beside you hehehe..
i think the reason why i hate asking for help is i will be pained if i ask and i didn't get the help i needed, and we have many people that just want to listen to your story, they are not ready to help
In today's era, many people are working from home and when they are not fit, there are many problems like what you are facing and I mean that human being is a person. Can help others now, the way you have helped this person, if you don't take it, then Humans should keep helping each other that's what humanity is, the way you have helped with his gate keeper and your work has become easier.