Anger birth destruction

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Anger birth destruction so I don't get angry for no reason because when you are angry you might have taken the wrong decision which you might regret later after you are calm.

There are two people in my life that I can't get angry with not because I don't get angry but because they have a very special place in my heart and anytime they make me angry it doesn't last five minutes before I shake it off.

The first person is my mom, you see my mom has a hot temper when she wants to address issues I don't know why but I think it is because there are plenty of girls to deal with in the family and if you are not strict with your daughters they might end up in the wrong direction.

Last week my mom called to tell me that I should visit my pregnant elder sister to check on her and I told her am in the shop and I can't go there unless am closed for the day, then she got so angry because I refused to go there immediately meanwhile I knew she was angry already so I called to explain myself and then she said: don't call my number again since I can't send you a message.

LoL Nigeria mom with their command message 🤣 I got pissed because of what she said without listening to my own side, at the moment she called I was making hair for my customer and I can't leave it and I can't tell her to come back I just have to finish the work before stepping out but she doesn't want to listen to me.

After some minutes the person I was making hair for received a call from home which makes her want to rush home I don't know what went wrong but she said she will come and finish her hair tomorrow so I was happy that I will be able to leave to so that my mom won't take the matter too far.


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Immediately the woman left I closed the shop and went to see my sister and on getting there she was ok so I told her to call mom so that she won't be angry anymore meanwhile she thought I was angry too that is why I didn't call her back and to my surprise when my elder sister called her she said: please help me to beg Dara because I knew I have disturbed her business for today.
I was listening to their conversation because the phone was on speaker I just smiled and said as if I can get angry with her.

Another person is my fiance sometimes I wish I can get angry for a very long time when he makes me angry but is like he has olive oil in his eyes when am angry and he looked at me and say am sorry my heart will melt like sheabutter so I can't get angry with him too because even when am at fault he will be the one to say sorry and you know that's what ladies want to be pampered lol 😂

So my anger for him can't last more than five minutes which is very good, some once told me that she and her husband can stay in the house for months without talking because they had misunderstanding I wonder how they cope with that because when am angry I always have headache so I don't like getting angry.

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Anger birth destruction so I don't get angry for no reason because when you are angry you might have taken the wrong decision which you might regret later after you are calm.

I resonate with this statement very well!

That’s why I try so hard to be quiet and calm whenever I’m angry, because I’m certain that I would regret whatever decision it is that I make at that moment when I’m angry.

Also, my mum is one person that I can’t stay angry. She is a disciplinarian and a typical African mother, so you can imagine how she would get on my nerves most times, but because she is my mom and I know whatever she does is out of pure love for her child, I would just have to forgive her and move on.

Thanks for sharing this nice piece.

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Am telling you I can't just get mad at her I don't know why
And she knows how to make me angry for no reason but still I will just calm my nerves just for peace to reign

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Nigerian mum's and emotional blackmail are like 5 and 6 sha.

but is like he has olive oil in his eyes when am angry and he looked at me and say am sorry my heart will melt like sheabutter

Awwn! Love nwantinti. You're doing well.
Anger affects the annoyed more.

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Don't mind them they love to get on their children's nerves because they know we will never get angry at them

Don't mind me jare sis love is sweet when you are with the right person

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Mother's can be sweet yet annoying.

Don't mind me jare sis love is sweet when you are with the right person

Abi! Congratulations my dear! Enjoy😊

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Heheheh you are a very funny being lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 when won't I go get a fiancee like this lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 see this melting like sheabutter is killing me lol 🤣🤣🤣, I need to feel this way because you are oppressing me lolz 😂🤣🤣...

Don't mind our Nigerian mother's lol 🤣🤣 emotional blackmail lol 🤣🤣🤣 I love your write up dear but take me too as your small fiancee too na 😔😔😔😔😔😔

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LoL 😂 I would have love to but I have given out my heart ❤️ to my fiance

Don't mind them o they know that if they don't shout we won't listen so she just have to get mad first so that I can do what she wants immediately

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Heheh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 lolz 😂🤣...
Then I will go to your fiancee and tell him to let you share your heart between us that is him and I lolz 😂🤣...

Emotional black mail is our mothers key lolz 😂

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parent are one of a kind😁, all mothers are like that, they get angry easily with their children especially when we don't do what they want but it doesn't last long at all, God bless our mothers💖...

I see love in your relationship, there is no love without anger especially for the ladies... it seems their own way of showing love is getting mad at the person they love lol.... and for your guy to always apologize even when you are at fault shows he loves you too 🤩

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LoL 😂 don't mind those mothers they don't know life is busier than when they are youth too

And as for my relationship I don't know what I do to God to deserve a better guy like this
Anyways we ladies love to get mad because it shows that we love that person

If a lady is not mad at her boyfriend at all it means she doesn't love him enough

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don't mind those mothers they don't know life is busier than when they are youth too
They know, they just don't like to hear no😁

Lucky you, even with your words, i can see the love is burning inside you😊

you are right, i also have one and sometimes i wonder why little things annoy her , seems you ladies just like it when guys beg you for no reason😅,

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They want whatever they ask immediately
Hmmm
Don't mind us jare that begging makes us feel loved 😍

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so true😁, strange beings😅... All good and i hope you and your love last together forever❣️💖

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There is that special thing we have for some people that we hold dear in our hearts and because of that, we cannot get angry at them. Even if we do, it doesn´t last at all. Your mom was funny but I love that you didn´t take it far to get angry at her because she couldn´t understand your own side of the story.

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Don't mind her she just want what she want instantly
Meanwhile I was so busy that day

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Anger is not bad in itself but it our reaction that can make it bad. Every human being gets angry.

Sometimes we just have to bear with our parents, those people are going through a lot in life. Sometimes they can't just help being mad at everyone. One thing I love with mothers is that they will always find away to make peace with us when they know they have gotten us offended. Mothers are gifts to us, the truth is we can hardly get angry with them for long, except if there is enmity between us.

You can't kick against a sharp objects when you are seeing it pointing directly to you. How would you be mad at your fiance for long , it won't work at all. Even if you use charm. This is someone you would always be with, thesame person comforts you. If you get angry with him you would still have to return to him. You cant reject your own house😁😁.

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LoL 😂 he's my house o so I can't be mad at my home

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Hahahhah... Thanks for that wonderful post ma🥰🥰

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