Dialogue and knowing how to dialogue can make a difference

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Hello community I'm back unfortunately due to health problems I couldn't participate in the other posts.
This theme of talking to each other tells me a lot, because I'm a very expressive person and I like to interact.
We as human beings need to interact with each other, which means we have to talk in order to understand each other.
Conversation is very important, we manage to convey to others what we think, what we are feeling, our ideas among many other things, and we also have to know how to listen to what others say to us, this is part of us as people.

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The advantages of being able to speak I have already enumerated them and they are many, but as with everything in life there are also disadvantages in terms of speech.
It all depends on the topic we want to talk to others about.
If it is something constructive, it will always be a good conversation and always enriching for us to develop as human beings, but conversations can be bad when, for example, we speak ill of someone, or through conversations we spread rumors about this or that.
It all depends on the conversation and the meaning we want it to have.

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I think the conversational part of the dialogue is important in our formation as people and human beings, but we can never forget that in order to speak it is also necessary to know how to listen, because a conversation will always have at least two people, but it can have much more.
As much as we agree or disagree with conversations, it is important to listen.
What is often lacking in the world is dialogue , that is why there are so many wars , and the reason is always or almost always the lack of dialogue to speak to transmit ideas and also to receive the ideas of others and reach an understanding that is good for all.
Talking and dialoguing is one of the lessons I pass on to my children.
I want them to know how to dialogue to solve problems and not get into conflicts.
Dialogue and knowing how to speak can be a great life lesson, for me it certainly is.

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I'll give you an example of a good thing and a bad thing that a conversation had with me.
I heard through other people that a person I considered a friend was talking bad about me, saying that I was that and even cursing me.
That's the bad part of a conversation.
But I got hurt, I went to that person and asked why he was talking bad about me and we talked and I came to the conclusion that it was all a lie he had never talked bad about me, the people who told me lied to me and wanted to destroy the friendship that existed between us.
Everything was resolved through dialogue and in my life it will always be like this, the priority will always be to speak and above all to know how to dialogue which implies speaking and also listening.

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Advantages and open dialogue online

For example, we live in an increasingly digital world and this brings us closer to each other, makes any part of the world just a click away and that's good. We can talk to everyone in the world wherever they are.
I like more face-to-face physical contact. Dialogue is one of my most important lessons.
We chatting online didn't see the expressions that whoever is talking to us makes, we only saw letters and phrases.
I've had good and bad experiences online. I once thought I was talking to a person and when I started seeing that person who was trying to make fun of me, he wanted me to take pity on him and give him money by sending it to any account in a part of the world.
The advantage is that, as I said, we can be anywhere in the world in a second, talking and closing the distances since I was on a mission in the troop and I was in Lebanon and I talked to my family online.
Everything has its advantages and disadvantages but whenever I can I am physically present.



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The art of listening can not be over emphasized. These days we have so many people who just 'hear' but don't 'listen' during conversations and this leads to more misunderstandings.

This is why some people just prefer to ignore a situation rather than talking things out, but 95 times out of 100, it makes the sitiatuin worse.

One reason people don't listen during conversations asides those who just want to hear what they want is so many people are stressed, tired and hence don't have the patience to genuinely listen to others during conversations. But it's really worth it to listen, it's a skill I believe is necessary for everything in this 21st century.

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Communication is the best part of human Relationship, once it is breached, we should expect the worst. It is expedient we choose what to talk about, there are many conversations that has shattered friendship and families. I think it would be nice if we choose to talk positively and when we discover wrongs in our fellows it won't be bad if we meet them in person to correct them.

I was wondering lately why I don't see your post. I didn't know you were Ill. How are is your condition now? Am happy to see you around♥️

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I'm a little better right now. Thank you for asking. A big hug

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👨‍❤️‍👨.. I wish you quick recovery sir♥️♥️

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Everything has advantages and disadvantages indeed, depending on how we use them.
Physical dialogue is the best though chatting online has it's benefits too.

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Socal media indeed has made communication all over the world easier.

Nice write up

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