It is Time To Make peace with yourself ...

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It is me Natalia from Ireland, I am interesting with writing specially Psychological type
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Many of us may be amazed when they hear that strange term, which is reconciliation with oneself. Do I and myself in his throat wrestle? Yes, gentlemen, each of us has a conflict with itself, but ... How and when does this conflict happen ???

We find that this conflict occurs when a person disagrees with his soul, in the clearest sense that the same person wants something unlike that which is carried out by the body. For example, the employee who occupies a profession did not want her and found himself working in a job that makes him more like a machine that works without stopping to achieve what is required of it completely without creativity or any achievement mentioned.

Another example is Gandhi, who narrated that until the twenties of his life, he carried a lot of anger and grudge in his heart towards a person who suffered greatly in his life, but he found that the feeling of anger is one that overlooks his life and absorbs all his positive energy, not that particular person.

What is the solution ?? ...

A person often disagrees with himself on various issues. Does this mean that he remains a prisoner of his negative feelings? Do not worry if you think so, this means that you are at the beginning of the right path because thinking in itself is the highest level of awareness.

And the most important question here ... How to get out of this dilemma?

You will find positivity and free yourself from the limitations of those negative feelings. Here are some steps that can help you in order to achieve reconciliation with the self that takes you towards harmony.

Where Louise l.Hay confirms in her book You can heal your life that tolerance is the best solution to all our problems that face us, whether with ourselves or with others because it liberates us from the past and frees us towards the present and the future.

To take care of yourself. Yes, take care of yourself. Do something for yourself. Everyone has the ability to make changes in their private lives
You have to put yourself in the right place and not download the error larger than its size and not give the achievement greater than its value, for example when you wear a tight dress on you, but you see that people see it beautiful on you, so will you feel comfortable, of course not. In such a situation, you are the enemy of yourself in order to please others.

Finally, reduce self-criticism

Sometimes a person is the greatest critic of himself, and this is not incompatible with reviewing oneself, correcting mistakes, and seeking to develop, but rather makes you attentive to frustrating negative thoughts and words.
And you will not be able to achieve this, except by stopping to compare yourself with others, enjoy your life without competing, and know that you are special.

"Enthusiasm is the main driver of effort, and without it nothing great can be achieved," says American philosopher Ralph Waldo Emerson. Even if tangible results do not appear, your journey is inspiring, and it will bear fruit soon.
We often focus on the things we did wrong, forget what we did correctly, and admit to mistakes, but if you really want to start a new page with yourself, you should focus on your actions that you did correctly, and make sure that even the smallest things Make a difference, and to be commended.

In an era dominated by the image, many believe that the outward appearance does not express their value, and they become frustrated, anxious and have poor self-confidence.
You must realize that our appearance does not determine who we are,
When you look in the mirror, focus on what you like, cherish your appearance as it is, and if you have negative thoughts, remember that you are greater than just this reflection.
Outside beauty is a relative matter, people differ in its appreciation and taste. As for your inner beauty, it is your true treasure, which is only increased by age and freshness.

I will conclude with what Walt Disney said: "All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to chase them."

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