Acquiring Resources As A Man

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Being a man isn't an easy thing. It means that you must be able to stand on your feet and make difficult decisions that may require short term self denials and sacrifices. It's a really harsh world out there, and sooner or later you get to realize that you have to acquire resources, if you want to get the best out of life.

There's no way of going around that. If you want to live happily and have people surround you and just be happy to be in your space, then you've got to be successful. It's just the reality of things. Nobody out there wants to be around a drag or a pull back, everybody wants that rich person that has the resources to make good things happen. That's human nature, it's better to work with it than fight it.

I've heard many people calling women gold diggers and some of their male friends gold diggers as well, but the truth might help to set the facts straight. Just the same way ants follow sugar, that's the same way people follow a luxurious lifestyle or someone that has that life. And will you blame them for it? Absolutely no.

What you should do, if you want that love and lifestyle is to work on yourself, and make your home and car and everything around you, really glowing and fantastic and you'll attract to your life the kind of people and lovely things you want. Now, what I'm saying here, is the real facts of life. People need real help and support, people need resources to solve problems in their lives, and that's why they're looking for someone that has them.

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Looking at it from a females standpoint, a woman is looking for a man with the resources to provide for herself and her children to come. So will you blame her for going with the richer man who can do that? Even if he's not her type in terms of looks? No, you wouldn't. Rather make yourself have the resources so that she goes with you, if you're interested in her; because if for instance, a man is broke and unkept; it's not even fair that such a man should want a gorgeous and expensive woman to be with him, because he can't afford the things she needs to maintain herself and keep looking that way.

I just wanted us to see it from a different perspective, instead of the normal 'she's a gold digger' kind of perspective or 'my friends are around me because of my money'. Of course, why would people be around you? To suffer? No. There's a great need that every man works on himself and becomes as self sufficient and as resourceful as possible. Commanding wealth and status, and enjoying the beauty of life, as you can get almost everything you want.

Thanks for reading!

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