In life, you have to take the pace that love goes. You don’t force it. You just don’t force love, you don’t force falling in love, you don’t force being in love – you just become. I don’t know how to say that in English, but you just feel it.
— Juan Pablo Galavis
The title sounds compelling right? That's what came to mind actually, well it's about love anyway not just in the context you thinking....
Love, easy and difficult at the same. Sometimes I feel people make it seem like you can find it easily and make you crave for it. But when you seek it you discover that all is not what it seems. Maybe the right one is not here yet? Maybe I am the problem? Maybe this, maybe that becomes the questions that flow through your mind.
You see people find love in places where you frequent both in the real world and online but it seems you always miss out on chance and you begin to wonder when will my time come.
Real love is a calm connection of trust between two people where you are appreciated and supported for fully being yourself, and that means all sides of yourself. ~ Sheri Jacobson
I have been there before and I am still there now....but I ask myself sometimes why do I want to fall in love? Is it because of the sweet, romantic, "will you marry me" proposal I see everywhere I look? Is it because I need something that will excite me? Am I actually ready to love someone? However, to be honest I want to fall in love either way...irrespective of the answer.
Which brings me to ask, do you prepare to fall in love? I mean is there a way to actually prepare for that journey? Well, I don't know about you but the answer for me is no. I have heard of people finding love in places they were not looking and time they did not expect. So love is not something you prepare for....it just happens when it wants. Then it is left for you to build on it with your partner. May I remind you, love alone does not make a relationship, other important things are needed to make it work.
Why am I talking about love today? Ah, should I say I miss the idea of being in a relationship? Or should I say I am being outspoken about my feelings right now? Whichever, it is a nice topic to write about....isn't it? Ah! Maybe it is something I am craving for right now.