Be gentle and talk to children

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Dear Hivers Friends

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In the middle of the family, children also have rights like other family members. Especially the right to win the warmth of love from parents or other residents of the house. Children are part of a family that receives full attention and affection, so that their physical and psychological growth is good.

The weaker a creature (human), the outpouring of love and affection, a gentle attitude to him, should be greater. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam ordered to pay extra attention to children, women and elderly parents, or people who do not know yet (ignorant).

For example, the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam did not berate the bedouin who urinated in the mosque, nor did he hit him. Because the person does not yet know the laws and conditions. Therefore, he sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam did not behave rudely to him, instead forbid some friends who intend to stop polahnya that is not commendable in the mosque.

Likewise, when commenting on the mistakes of friends Mu'awiyah bin Hakam as Sulami who prayed for those who sneezed in the middle of prayer. After the prayer, the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam only exhorted:" This is salat, it is not appropriate in it to talk with people. (What is done) just say the prayer beads, takbir and read the Qur'an ".

When he saw the soft rebuke of the Prophet, he said: "I redeemed you with my father and mother. I have never seen an educator before and after that have a better way to educate him than him. He did not rebuke me, did not hit me, (also) did not berate me. "[6]

That is the character that dominates the person of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, being uswah (role models) for a teacher, educator or parent. The nature of tenderness and affection become a symbol, especially to children.
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala said:

لقد كان لكم في رسول الله أسوة حسنة لمن كان يرجو الله واليوم الآخر وذكر الله كثيرا

"And truly in the Messenger of Allah there is a good example for you, (that is) those who expect meeting with Allah and remembering Allah with much". [Al Ahzab: 21].

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If the love, affection of parents (and educators) is lacking in the children, it is not impossible that the child will grow up as a person who behaves strangely in the middle of his community, namely his friends. For example, not good at interacting with outsiders, lacking self-confidence, lacking social sensitivity, unable to foster a spirit of mutual cooperation or sacrifice. Later, sometimes he could not be a loving father, or a good partner for interaction, nor could he act as a neighbor who was reluctant to disturb his neighbors, and other negative effects. Therefore, it is an obligation for parents to meet the needs of love and love for their children.

Regards, @boyacun123
Aceh, 13 June 2020



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@boyacun123, your content would also be good for the #innerblocks tag too.

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