Bearing Your "Inabilities" On Your Résumé
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Recently I've become a little sceptical about my abilities to attract the right kind of people into my life and after a careful scrutinization I only concluded that I've been looking at my weaknesses, presenting them in the forefront of my résumé and this becomes like a headlight immediately I present myself out there for the taking. One thing I've realised is that we're all marketers in life. It's either we're selling our ideas or we're selling our identities and the ability to get people to key into us, what we bring and our prospects is what makes us to be termed as a success. Without even arguing it, we're two pairs; the one's purchasing and the people being purchased.
Truth is, irrespective of how we polish who we are it doesn't change the fact that we are still what we are. In business so Many companies come up with fantasies, selling unrealistic and were patronised on a larger scale but this will only continue for as long as people don't realise they're being decieved. This is not me. I like people to see everything I embody immediately they're walking into the front door. I believe selling a lie will only bring short term comfort on my part and actually betray confidence. Sometimes in life we fail to play the long believing we only love for the moment, but this isn't true.
Sometimes we underestimate our abilities to eschew longevity simply because things sometimes become too difficult for us. Because life seems hard we often feel we need to enjoy every moment like tomorrow will never come and this makes us make ludicrous plans for the moment forgetting that not everyone is going to have a short and uneventful life. I know it's good to look at the moment, but then sometimes looking at the moment allows us only to live an aggrandised lie, we try to do unimaginable things, become the people we aren't and have those short term pleasures. But deep down whenever we sleep, we're restored back to factory setting.
The main reasons why I've become a little bit reserved about myself, not wanting to communicate what I'm not is because the long term disappointment is something i always try to avoid. In the past I lived for the moment, throwing caution to the wind but so far, I've come this far and I've naturally realised I haven't been really true to myself. We're more of actors in life and we wear different personalities for different real time situations but then the effect of being an actor often affects our original essence, making us lose the core things that makes us what we are.
It's true we crave "ESCAPE" sometimes, we want to get high, get into a beautiful unreality, do sweet crazy things but then this things are temporary and we are; our mind are permanent to a particular extent and when all the indulgence expires we're left with just one naked truth: we're alone, living the lie we have carved out for ourselves. Nothing is worth dying for not even the people you think you love that's why this thing calls "love" is often given too much meaning. We're the most important things to ourselves and one day everyone will leave us and we're left with ourselves alone with the fake indulgence we once craved not being there to comfort us.
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I too have had problems with resumes and I remember having to look for some help on these cases. The good thing is that I was able to do it, I just managed to get the experts to help me write a good resume that I could apply to exactly the company I wanted. Look for yourself at skillroads.com/free-online-resume-builder and they can already help with that. I don't have a talent for presenting myself, but they made it happen. Good luck, hope I can help.