Surround yourself with positive people!

I heard it somewhere that we at least have to befriend three positive people in our life. It's to ensure the flow of positivity and motivation. Just think if we can surround ourselves with as many positive-minded people as we can, how amazing our life would be!

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There may not have any financial benefits of this but passively these people can make our life better in many ways. Let me give you an example of how it works!

Suppose, you lost your job for a reason. You come back home, cry, or feel sad for a day. Call a friend and your friend just blaming you, like how can you lose the job, it's your fault, you are good for nothing. Or maybe he/she just agreeing with you the way you are feeling bad about yourself. On the other hand, you have a very positive-minded friend and gave him/her a call. He/she is saying it's okay, focus on what you have, help you make a better plan to get another job, and motivates you to feel better again.

You see how simple it is to get motivation and how positive people can help to make our life better. Now, how can we identify who is positive and who is not? That's not actually a hard job also.

Choose people who focus on the positive side of life but don't ignore the negatives too.

Identify how people react about your well-being and failure.

Who makes you feel better and lift up your motivation.

Who doesn't blame you and make you feel bad.

Who engage you in positive activities.

Who defines negativity as an opportunity.

It's not very hard to identify positive people but it's tough to befriend positive people. Especially it's more than hard if you have to skip your toxic friendship or your friends are not positive. But we have to do that for our well-being. It may sound selfish but it's actually helping ourselves out for a better life.



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