Hello everyone, welcome to my today topic, I hope you had a great night. My topic for today will focused on pretenders, our enemies who pretend to be our best friend. What we need to do when we have those people as our friends, the best step to take to get it right with them and how we can bring out the best out of them. What you need to do when you detect that your best friend is seems to be your enemy.

Most times when dealing with people in our society, trust is the most important things among the people but we need to let our trust based on both reason and emotion because if our emotion orientate toward a person is negative believe it will be very difficult to change our perceptions about the person so that's why we need to carefully reason on subject matter before we make a final decision about how far we may want to go with them. The best things to do is to exercise a lot of patience before you decide on what to do because the person you see as your enemy today, may turn out to be your best friend tomorrow.

When you are dealing with the enemity, you need to unleashing the power of emotional Intelligence because for every step you take in life, you have to take special precautions about your enemy that is pretends as your friend and find something that will help you and, hopefully get the best advice from your counterpart want you to succeed in life. However when seeking advice from people don’t ever listen or give any credence to the toxic person because the person that wants to give you advice may only it is want their opinion heard and lead your out of line.

However, people mindset is rational and it establishes our thinking toward the life expectations of the fledgling relationship you have built on but using the previous life to judge people may definitely deduced your efforts and may comes up as dishonest or as ineffective pandering to your goodwill. Life without second thought may be jeopardize at the end so that why we need to be patience before we decide on life of your enemies, the best is yet to come for you but when you do it right definitely you have the best moments of your life.

Before I drop my pen for today, you need to understand that when your enemy pretends they love you physically and they always pretends nothing is going on but secretly accuses you for nothing you no anything about, although it is very hard not to get angry and defensive about this kind of situation. You don't need to put more petrol into fire because this is not one of those situations to fight fire with fire but what you need to do is remain calm and do your best on how to take a best actions. What the your enemies want you to do is to get mad so people can blame you in order for them to take your place in order to release of their own anxiety.

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