Life's Like That - It Favours, It Hurts
In life, we hear two different set of words from two sets of people and I'll start with the set that say words like:
Oh Life is so unfair, do I deserve all these pains and difficulties in life? Why me?
Shit happens and we hear these set of people who go through it say words like this in despair. They tend to forget the good things life has given to them before the hurt and pain. They feel like life is being impartial to them, they wish life isn't unfair to them. But the who would wish for life to be unfair to them? Nobody I guess.
I've been having stomach ache since yesterday and it's not relieving me at all, like I've not been myself since yesterday... I even began to feel like hurting myself elsewhere just so I don't feel the stomach pain anymore but that would only amount to more pains and I don't think I want to go through that.
Life may be painful and hurtful sometimes but then, Shit Happens. We can't control the bad things that comes to us sometimes but we can only prepare ourselves to be strong in such times and go through it till life give us a good time to enjoy.
We hear another set of people in life say words like:
Oh life is good, life is sweet, I have all I need and I'm so happy
Even in the tough and painful life we find ourselves, good things happen to us from time to time. We tend to feel happy and very grateful that sometimes we forget the pain we've once been through. Good times in life makes us see that life isn't all that bad, there are still some many things to be grateful for. When these good things happen to us, we find ourselves giving motivation and encouragement to those who haven't felt the good part of life yet or those who curse at life for being unfair or those who keep wishing for death to come take them.
A married woman went through hell in the hands of her husband and mother in law even to the extent that she almost took her life all because she couldn't conceive. She conceived and gave birth to a twin after ten years of waiting and hoping... The woman agreed that life could be unfair sometimes and be fair sometimes.
We can't also control the good things that happen to us but we can always learn to be happy no matter what and accept the good things that life brings to us. We can live life to the fullest even though we passed through so many hard times before we met good things... Convince those that are yet to see life in a positive way to have a change of heart.
Those two part of life (Good and bad) are what makes life what it is - It Favours, It Hurts
But I'll like to share what @nainaztengra said in her post titled IF GOOD TIMES DO NOT STAY - NEITHER DO BAD ONES
Nothing is permanent in nature, sometimes we may feel it's getting too much dragged than our tolerance level, but then still it is never going to be permanent.
No matter how long our bad times take and how short our good times take in life... Always keep in mind that:
Life's Like That - It Favours, It Hurts
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I can't imagine life without all the huddles. It would be too good to be true.
Life gets sour to teach us lessons. There can be no happiness without sadness..
You got the message dear, we just have to be strong for whatever may come our way from life.
Nice write up dear.
-Aha not only sometimes but most of the time life hurts not because of our fault. But because it's how we are being seen by other people. It's normal to humans that we only look on the other side of life on what and how we seeing it, without even thinking to check if the other side of peoples lives need their attention also True life favours but most of the time hurts!
Awesome post! Thank you for sharing this!
May you all have a blessed Sunday!❤🌷💚🙏😇*
Indeed, you're right that life hurts most of the times but we can only be in control of our own life by staying strong and being happy in our own way.
Thanks for stopping by dear
-That's true, life is not life without the challenges, and you couldn't just leave the people or things you love the most because of hard times and challenges!. Especially in family, if it's with love and unity, you will die both even in a very poor state together. if both have a mutual feeling and one goal, like me I don't look at material things family first. In my career, Even if how tough as long as I'm happy I will stay, but I will leave it all the time I have been pulled down by my office mates, It was about my career in previous corporate work, the reason I left there, because that was hopeless I was so stressed in time and ill mannered person there.. You are right we should be strong in every challenge that come our way.
Life comes with ups and downs. Sometimes it's favourable, sometimes it's not. At the end of the day staying positive through every situation is all that matters.
True it hurts so bad at times.. but it balances itself out. We need to focus on the good parts and make the best of life.
Hope you are feeling better now.
Life can never be rosy always. We would definitely Experience both good and bad times but what is more important and good news to us is that the bad moment isn't permanent but temporary because the Bible also tells us that though sadness may endure for a night but Joy comes in the morning.
@dreemport caterpaulted me here 😅😅
I hope you are better now... Thank God you didn't hurt yourself elsewhere because as your rightly said, it will amount to more pains.
Truth be told, life hurts even as it favours... But that doesn't mean we should give up when it hurts. Nothing is permanent and so these tough times, these pains, will all be a thing of the past....
Thanks for sharing this powerful piece... I was directed to your post by @dreemport.