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Hi guys,

Pardon my white and black video, I just needed to hide my puffy face and rough hair lol.

Some ladies are of the opinion that it is a guy's job to make the first move out, like it is their responsibility to do that. Well, I believe most of us ladies feel this way....we feel like if we make the first move, it means we have no self pride or what not.

However, I beg to differ plus I think that is a traditional way of thinking. This school of thought is very common in this part I am from, I don't know so much about other places though. It is believed that when a lady make the first move on a guy, she is has no pride or better still she has no shame.

Now I am not saying the traditional way is wrong but I am of the opinion that mindset needs to be upgraded or revised. There is absolutely nothing wrong in a lady making the first move on a guy, especially one you really like. It doesn't make you less innocent than you already are or more innocent if you do it. It is just one person telling the other person how she feels....instead of letting them slip away because of ego.

I understand as a lady you want to preserve your "ego" or "pride" as a lady but it doesn't change who you are as a person.

Thanks for watching, have a lovely day!

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