Change Should Not Be Forced On People
There are some things that just shouldn't be forced, especially when it comes to change in people. Better still, we should understand that forcing people to change don't always end well "most" times....at the end of the day it either the person begins to pretend to be changed or just maybe regret that decision later.
Like a saying goes, you can force a horse to the river but you can't force it to drink water. That is an apt explanation of it. Any change that should take place should come willingly from the concerned individuals, whether or not you are telling them the right thing. You are entitled to your opinion and so are they....so give them a choice.
The best thing to do is guide, advice, or give them the necessary tools to understand why that change is needed. We can't always force people to change, they need to be willing. It's just like a woman going into a relationship with a flirt of a man blinded by love, with the mindset that she can change him.
Now, I am not ruling out any possibility of him changing but I am saying that, except he wants to change....he would "most likely" never change. But, if he changes his character it would be because he chose to, not because you enforced it.
Thanks for watching, have a good day.
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Love your intro, it's different and unique. Yes, I agree with you, we can't force someone the change suddenly even we shouldn't allow anyone to do it with ourselves. Some changes are good for improving and developing yourself but it's is an individual's decision whether they are ready to accept the changes or not. But to be honest, I like changes which I decide to change not because someone said so... You know what I mean...
Thank you, I thought I could use something new even though the video quality is still low. And yes, I know what you mean....forcing someone to change isn't always the best. Allowing them to make that decision makes more sense and works better.