Stop It!
We all know that countless messages today are all centered around marriages or couple relationships which isn't bad and while I was growing up, I have countless times heard people say that if you are always trying to prove yourself in a relationship then you should walk out of that relationship because it isn't healthy. Well,l that's right anyway but what about friendship.
Well, this is me saying, stop trying to prove yourself to anyone!
If they love you as they claim, they wouldn't wait for you to prove yourself or prove your worth to them before they accept you or believe you. They don't even need you proving yourself to them.
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Stop it! How did I sound harsh? I guess I didn't sound that harsh, but not to worry I am going to try it out again. Okay, I am not trying to sound harsh but trying to pass a message across. Stop trying to prove yourself to someone. Stop it, stop it!
If they're ready to believe you or take you the day you are, then you should stop trying to prove your worth or a point to them.
All in the name of trying to prove oneself, many have done things that have toe lead them to their early grave, all in the name of a child trying to prove their self and worth to their parent, they have gone to the extreme but that isn't what love is all about right?
Love is accepting the person just the way he or she is and if anyone is trying to make you prove yourself or worth to them, it means they don't love you and that means then that they aren't worth you and your stress. They are blind to see you and the stuff you are made of and no amount of time put in making them see your worth is worth it because they will never see it.
They will always make you prove yourself over and over again.
You don't have to stress yourself over trying to prove yourself to someone who isn't interested and does not care a damn about you. You are worth more and tryna prove to someone that is likewise telling the person you don't know your worth.
Stop tryna prove yourself to someone because they are not worth it. If someone loves you, they wouldn't need you to go all the way to prove yourself to them because they love you. You've got no time to tryna prove yourself to someone because you've got better things to do.
If they need you to prove yourself before they believe you, then you should tell them to go sleep because you've got no time to do that.
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