Those suckers are gonna coming out


Several times, I've had this feeling of loneliness and felt like being in a relationship, well I don't know if there is anyone who wouldn't want to be in a relationship or dating.

Have someone call you, have someone text you, have some send you messages, have someone encourage you, have someone whom shoulder you can lean on when others are busy. Have someone who would correct you with love, have someone you will quarrel with, and at the end of the day, apologize to each other, settle your differences and be together.

We all know that a relationship isn't a bed of roses, which we all know but notwithstanding, we still want to be with that one person that can talk to us, quarrel with us, not judge us, play with us, smile with us, and encourage us.

We still want to experience what it means to love and be loved by that time one person which we would one day walk the aisle with.

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You know, those thoughts aren't wrong, like they are the coolest thought but why must we wait for a romantic relationship before we can sort out ourselves?

Come on, we don't have to wait for a romantic relationship before we kill our boredom or, our shortcomings, flaws, perhaps any life traumas we are going through.

We can choose to process our early life traumas or we can wait for a romantic relationship to reveal them, either way, those suckers are coming out.

Waiting for a romantic relationship to reveal them is going to be the worst thing that can ever happen because, at the end of the day, you're not going to enjoy that stuff. You would end up regretting you went into the relationship.

So, why not just sort or process your life traumas before you walk into any relationship, so you stop those suckers from showing up in your relationship.

If you think it through, I am sure you will be happy you sorted yourself out.

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they do come out
Relationships test every part of you,
because marriage is not something you jump into only based on hormones and lust.