Understanding Social Importance To Personal Growth & Development
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Sometimes the popular opinion of "not needing" people to grow, make decisons, attain fufilment, acceptance or satisfaction often contradicts the fact that we have communal tendencies inside of us to individually thrive. This means that sometimes its hypocritical when we say we don't need people but then we crave acceptance from Others to attain happiness. In this video I talk about how its vital that we see societal Importance as key to personal growth and development. While we should strive hard to be independent in life, this doesn't means we should ignore the role of community, brotherliness in our development as humans. I talk about appreciating it and promoting its values amidst other things.
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Wow nice post it is good not to be independent on the people you should try to depend on ourselves and have self-confidence.
because if those people who disappoint us it will really paying us because we have depend on them and we have plan a lot of thing with them so to achieve our aim and goal might be difficult because we are not use to it.
and that does not means you should not associate with people and interact with people but you should learn how to do some things on our self.
It is good to take advice from people and learn from their experience but the best thing is that you should never base your own Future on their experience.
because they are some mistake they made, but if you want to learn from them you learnt from their mistake and the mistake will make you too be perfect, so that it save or you know how you overcome when you come across such.
Thanks for your comment, in addition, we are social animals by default. No one can solely attain progress and anyone who thinks they can or have in the past. Is basically living in denial. Communal tendencies is why the world has gotten to where it is, thinking otherwise is overrating our abilities.
Nevertheless, we should recognised what true independence is, because its different from living in isolation.
No independent is not living in isolation just that you should know that you cannot depend on anyone because everyone have their own goal which they are pursue every day.
The problem is that some people believe that they cannot do without people plan for them although we need each other and the help of each other but we should not over depend on people.
You need to plan your future on your own if you depend on people to plan for you you will fail at the end because they are busy with their own plan so don't expect them to add their own to yours.
And when they leave you or they do not help you in one way or the other isn't paying you thank you I really appreciate your response.
How are you today man? What happened? Did you recover?
No no no, its my day 5 of treatment. I just have a cache of videos and contents i've pre-written and pre-recorded, I just basically took one of them them and posted it. I can't even do a video now, my face is all swollen, can't even stare at the mirror
Are you making videos from the hospital bathroom?
I like that funky tune in the background.
It looks like disco is not dead in Nigeria or at least disco is still alive on @josediccus' video.
You are important to us. Even if the dog barks loud we are still listening to your voice @josediccus.
The cool thing about Hive is you get feedback... and every once and a while some of that feedback is honest. We build on each other and this begins the addiction to the social aspect of Hive. My plan was to just throw an upvote to get my curation reward but I somehow felt I should check up on @josediccus. Now I invested 20 minutes for our codependent relationship. 10 minutes for the video and ten minutes for this silly comment.
I admire that you have guts to make these recordings. I used to do a lot of videos but this last year I stopped. I'm just not sure what niche I am passionate about. One day I will figure it out. In the meantime I will be wasting my time on Hive.
!LUV
Oh my.... Replying to my own comment again. Bad habit. Self love is the cul de sac of relationships.
But in my last comment or reply to you, I vividly explained that I have a long list of pre-recorded and pre-written contents.
That was a video I recorded In July. I do contrnrst when I have to Just because of when I cannot. If you check my profile you'll see that I haven't even been active. @joetunex even called to ask why.
Keep posting then buddy,
I just hoped you were miraculously ok and back.
It's like when you see someone and you want it to all be the same even when you know it can't happen.
I understand it will take time. I'm glad you are alive and still here.
Thank you a lot, I appreciate, these videos have flaws like you mentioned, I recorded them in my flat's kitchen. Its my long term plan to perfect my videos, and i'm working on it. I've always had a plan in me, its how I manage to develop overtime. Surely next year will be totally different, i've always managed to bring it.