How Can You Defend Yourself Without Having A Fight?

Most of the time, you see people start fighting because of silly reasons. You might laugh about why they are fighting for. That does not make any sense. I talk about fighting skills and martial arts, I never support to hurt innocent people.

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Do you think you need to show your power hurting other people? What are you going to achieve being arrogant?

If you fight to show off or show others that you are good at it, you make the wrong move. Like if you insult and don't respect other people, just wait, you will be treated in the same way. We see this over and over.

Martial art is only for self defense. It is to stop the violence, not to create more. And if that requires force, you know and are trained to fight to defend yourself. The thing is, you can solve a lot of things without having a fight.

You get angry and said something or other people say something, you cannot control your emotions. Your attitude and behavior can change a lot of things around you. Instead of starting a fight, you can talk to the person and come up with a solution.

If things get out of control, you can call the police and let them handle the situation. Sometimes you do not get a chance to call the police. If it is in a public place, you can draw other people's attention. Even though other people might not come forward to help you directly, yes, it can happen in real-life situations, someone among them can call the police. And it might save change the situation.

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Sometimes you do not get any chance to do those things, you are being attacked out of nowhere. You do not know what the attackers planed. You do not even know why they are attacking you. You did not do anything wrong.

Still, you might find there are some reasons behind the attack. Maybe someone wants you to be in trouble and creates all this. Maybe they want to kidnap you and you have no idea what would happen next.

The mindset and the way you fight in real life, that's totally different than fighting in a fighting competition. You punch or kick someone and then you are kidnapped. You can guess what would happen. So try to understand the attacker's intention and intercept that.

If they want your money, you can give your money, if they want your watch, throw it away. If they intend to kidnap you, you have to prevent them so that they cannot succeed to kidnap you.

This is not black and white. You have to make the decision based on the situation and act accordingly. Thank you so much for reading this post.

Please feel free to leave your comments below. That's it for now. Stay safe. Always be happy!


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I wish I could ignore all the fight going on my mind!

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hmm... wondering who is your opponent anyway. He does not have a chance to survive. ;)
Thank you @rem-steem for taking the time to read this and comment!

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Who needs an opponent if you yourself are your enemy!
Lol...Im learning to kill my worse part from myself 👊👊

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How about hugging her?
I'm sure she will listen to you next time. :)

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