Why do we fear lack of commitment?

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Hello friends, this time I want to write about the fear that can be generated in some of us by the simple fact of lack of commitment.

Certainly fear is a feeling that inhibits us and limits us to achieve certain goals in life, besides fear also has the benefit of placing a barrier between the safe and the risky, let's simply analyze why we can feel fear as a result of lack of commitment.

Acquiring a commitment is something that defines us as responsible people, however it can make us nervous and even get to acquire fear of acquiring a responsibility or commitment that without measuring very well the consequences perhaps at some point we can not meet, then there may come a time in our lives that we look bad to some commitments to the point of being afraid of acquiring a commitment as easy to fulfill it may seem.

However, the fear of acquiring commitments does not always have the same origin, this state of fear is also acquired simply because there are people who do not want to be responsible and acquire commitments due to a selfish feeling that does not allow them to acquire a commitment that requires work, sacrifice, effort and patience, which is why they are afraid of acquiring commitments that take them out of their comfort zone as a result of a selfish personality.

There is a very common personality of teenagers, and is the fear that is generated when they are about to enter a stage where they must acquire work commitments and a very different responsibility to which they have been accustomed, since most have had to complete their studies and enter the labor market and acquire new responsibilities, it is here that influences a very strong psychological reason, as many choose to avoid this responsibility by extending their life as students, it is simply the fear of taking a responsibility and a commitment that can lead to a different lifestyle.

If we are people who do not want to avoid responsibilities, but certainly if we are afraid of acquiring any because we are afraid of looking bad in front of some responsibility, we simply have to believe in ourselves and know that we are up to any responsibility.

Making decisions about new directions in life is the stage of breaking that fear of acquiring commitments and responsibilities so necessary for any person who is aware of a path where a new process of formation prevails.