Growing up In Pakistan as a girl is not that easy.
What situations we face and we deal with them.
Let me share some of them
When I was quite young my mama taught me one lesson which I learnt very well. Don't give a boy a chance to toy your feelings. Don't talk to boys unnecessarily. If you are in your night Pjays you cant come in front of your baba or even brothers. Go back and come in proper clothes. Don't go outside at night(well I also don't like going outside at night without my family). Don't talk about periods in public. If you don't want to be sexualized then just don't wear such type of clothes you think Men would attract.
The most important lesson that I was reminded of today again. I am tired of this lesson but you can't help it :P so just
Do you guys know what is the funniest joke in our society?
Don't talk to boys but there you go we have found a stranger for you to get married 😂to. Another lesson that was reminded by mama. After marriage cooking and being a housewife would be your only responsibilities what would you do with your degrees? or your online work?
Then here comes the example of my mama.
Look at me I am a psychologist and what I am doing? cooking and taking care of my house. Now I am confused if she is trying to make my mind for marriage or scaring me off?
Some bitter experience can't demotivate you xawi. There will be days when you won't get any support. There will be days when people might turn against you. So during those days, there would be only one person who will always be there for you to support and that person is you, yourself. I appreciate myself and I clap for myself. Because I am the only one, my own motivation. It is very important to be your own motivation when you are being discouraged by your close ones. What I can do for myself no one can.
Take step carefully because whatever I will do will define who I am when nobody is watching.
I spilt out my all anger on my post :P XD I am feeling very light so I am taking a nice nap break see ya lovely people :)