Will I Ever?

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Will I ever be the one for you?
Have you asked this question before? Or have you ever found yourself liking this one person and it feels you aren't even enough or the one for the person?
What do you do in such situations? When you know your heart is panting for this person but you also know that anything can happen in the next couple of days.
What if you end up not liking this person again?
Or what if the person doesn't like you in return or what if you aren't even the one for the person?

I guess we have asked these silly and lame questions before.
A lot of us have seen ourselves in that position and all we could think of was letting fate decide for us.
Most people make it a conscious effort to find answers for themselves.
For those that couldn't, they let things die off.

And out of 100% of people that ask these questions, 80% are females.
This makes me ask why a lady seems to worry more about being accepted or being able to fit into someone's life?
Why do this gender worry more about what people think of them and their acceptance?
What makes them feel so insecure with little or no confidence about who they are or what they want?

Will I Ever?

If you have ever asked this question then you are among those few persons that think or feel that you aren't enough for a particular person or group of persons.
You are among those who feel insecure about themselves.

And today I am here to remind you that you don't even have to question yourself about these kinds of things.
You really don't have to feel you aren't enough for a person or group of persons.
You are just enough for whoever knows your worth and importance.
You are enough for an association, organization, or group that values your presence and existence.

And if you say will I ever do this or do that, it means you are doubting yourself and your abilities.
You can do anything you set your mind to do and whatever it is that you are confident about and you are also determined.
So when next you ask the Will I Ever? question, always remember that you are enough and that you can do whatever it you set and make up your mind to do.



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uhm yea. their confidence seems to fail them in some situation when they think the person involve is more greater than them, but it is a normal thing. even guys do feel that way

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Well, I guess we do this because our confidence and self-esteem fail us when we meet certain people. Not that we don't know who we are at that point but because we realize that we still have more to do, like, there is still more work to be done if we really want to associate with this kinda people.

Although, it is not a healthy habit because it causes us to lose people, and be rejected even when we have not been rejected by those persons.

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