Is You, Is Me

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What on earth will make parents fight over who their child inherited certain behaviours from. More especially when they do not have any of such traits. It actually makes them to wonder where they went wrong to have a child with such characteristics. They keep themselves busy looking at only them forgetting their large family out there. They forget an uncle or a sister, a grandmother or father might possess such trait.

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Sometime this trait thing turns in a war among the husband and wife, one party stand on the ground that this particular trait is not in their family, and so it is the other party that has it in theirs. The other party also go with the opposite that it’s rather not from theirs but the other.

Eventually, it turns into heated argument that leads to a great misunderstanding. My problem now is not they fighting over these traits, but I want to just ask this “Why should they even argue on that in the first place? I don’t see any reason to argue on such things when they should rather work on ways to get their children in the right path as a parent no matter what.

Accusing each other with a trait that none of you have, that’s not show maturity on my side though and you as a reader, your views are humbly welcome, because like I tell people we never debate on issues but we only agree to disagree on them, so feel free to voice your thoughts out.

But in all the best way to treat such issues is to sit up with the child and tell him the various biles around that particular trait he has and how they can affect him in the future. That will do good than accusing each other.

Let’s love our children with all the love and care that they need and they will never let us down no matter what. Good life, live it well



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