28 Years ago I met this man, I was 18 and he was 21, it was Love at first sight, there was an instant connection and bonding and from the very first moment we saw each other we knew we were meant to be together. The saying goes very apt for me "Love is Blind" and I guess for both of us it was something like that and we both are still Blind 😍

Three years later we got married, honestly I will confess that both of us were not matured enough to get onto such a big responsibility but all we understood that time was that we wanted to be together. We insisted to our parents that we want to get married early😍😍 and we are actually happy about it till date because we feel we have grown together and accomplished everything together in life.

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Over a period of time, our Love has only grown for each other. We may fall in Love instantly with someone but to stay in Love forever is another part of growing up in the relation. We have been a part of each other's success and failure at every step, we have been closely involved with each and every aspect of each other's lives, to an extent we can read each other's mind and with all of this I feel our bonding has grown stronger over the years.

Every relation has its own share of struggle, fights, pains, discomfort and all sorts of ups and downs, but that does not mean that Love does not exist. Even if you would have two best understanding people of the world falling in Love with each other than too there will be difference of opinion with each other at some point of time. I believe Love is a very strong energetic connection between two people, where there is a decent amount of understanding.

Understanding of each other's emotions, feelings, wants, likes, dislikes, freedom, space and so much more and when this fails Love falls apart. No 2 people are same hence there is definitely going to be some amount of differences, conflicts in any relation, but that's part of this deal and if you want to work it out you also need to have certain understanding level and adjustments to be made by both the partners.

But when only one partner keeps working towards it and the other keeps taking advantage then the relation gets toxic and the real love starts fading out. Sometimes there is never a lack of Love in the relation, but what lacks is understanding, sensitivity and compassion towards each other.

When the attraction is only physical, over a period of time it fades out because there is no heart to heart connection, but when the 2 hearts meet and bond by itself there is a lot of understanding that falls in place. In Love we grow and shape up our lives with our partners, when we are able to do that we fall more and more in Love with the same person every single day. When the partnership is good the relationship blossoms and friendship grows and we keep falling in Love again and again with the same person.

But when Love falls apart for whatever reason, it is the most painful experience. May be more then any wound can cause pain. Being with some one you love becomes like a addiction and when suddenly you have to get out of it, becomes difficult to quit just like any other addiction. The mind keeps going back there again and again, the emptiness and void that is created kills the person emotionally. Suddenly you feel the emptiness within and the Heart Chakra goes completely for a toss.

When you are in Love all your Chakras are in perfect harmony, but when you fall out of it all of them goes haywire, imbalanced, because the emptiness that is created gets taken over by lot of unwanted emotions which starts all over in your body. The Love hormone Oxytocin goes for a toss, suddenly you feel unwanted and energy amplifies, the more you feed into something the more it grows and it just happens that way, the more and more you feel sad about the break up and keep thinking the more it gets stronger in your mind and difficult to let go.

The other main reason I see is that in Love sometimes we overlook the reality, it just sweeps us and gives us a very rosy picture, but after sometime when we start facing the reality and get out of the state of delusion somewhere the heart feels pierced, it feels disturbed and then it becomes difficult to control the emotions it throws back.

For me I have been in Love with my man forever and I know this bonding will never fade, but still every thing has a end and sometimes I just wonder what will happen to us when one of us dies and what will our world be after that, we have never known what being without each other is. How will we get over the loss.

Being in Love is the most beautiful and blessed feeling and falling apart is the most painful feeling, like 2 poles apart, what brings you excess pleasure will also bring in excess pain. Falling apart feels like falling right from the top to the most bottom, there in Love you are floating and now you are on the ground.

Any type of Love is exuberating and it gives us the best feeling that we can ever experience and it is just the opposite when it falls apart.

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