Some thoughts on Vicious Cycle

Heya everyone wassup,

It's been a while that I wrote something other than hunts and gaming posts. Yep, It seems I buried my blog from hunts and splinterlands posts. But to be honest to write something authentic you need the inspiration. Anyways what came in my mind today that I decided to write. It's almost midnight here and I am a night owl from ages. Now I have no time for midnight thoughts why? Ummm credit maybe goes to splinterlands :P XD

Now no time for midnight thought I rather spend my thoughts on making different strategies.:P I can write epistles on splinterlands ut I won't since I have decided to write on a different topic, Vicious cycle Anyone out there knows what is this Vicious cycle?

Let me explain this cycle though this image

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Vicious Cycle is a series of happenings. which lead your life to the miserable spot. I've been thinking for several days to touch upon this topic. I was just pondering while writing anything on this topic. I might have told in my previous posts that I am a very keen observer. I observe things and then get a lesson from them. It's not always true In order to gain experiences in your life it is must that you have been through such circumstances. Sometimes you learn from your close ones as well.

Vicious cycle creates a series of bad happenings in your life and it keeps creating the impossible problems in your life that keep you trapped in this cycle.

It could be anything like some bad past experiences and you are not able to get out of them and you end up being revolved into the realm of your emotions and feelings.

If you've been in love with someone and you are trying to forget that person in order to move on in your life then sorry my friend you are going in the wrong direction. Ok, no need to get shocked I can explain my logic.

When you have given a very precious spot in your life to someone and now you are trying to forget and want freedom then I don't think Its a good move because that person will always be a part of your past and living within you through the moments you both have lived together. And this is the major problem of the heart you want to forget someone but you can't then this is how you are creating a vicious cycle around yourself.

So you remain being trapped in the realm of emotions and hence this cycle continuous. So what's the answer? How can you get over such situation?

so there is advice from Philosopher xawi :P XD

You don't have to forget your past in order to move on in your life just let it be the way it is. There is a need for acceptance. Yes, Acceptance is the best key to move on. Instead of being trapped by resistance accept the acceptance because of acceptance will set you free. I hope philosopher xawi has made some point here

Like, Take an example of me I am in love with someone who I can't have in my life. So instead of leaving everything in order to move on in life, I accept the reality and trying to live happily. Well, there has never been any kind of expectations and hopes in one-sided love which made things easier for me but it's not an easy thing for those who are in love with each other. So I pray for such people since the matter of heart sucks badly.

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