Did I deserve to be treated that way?

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The Hive learner prompt just made me remember one of the saddest moments in my school days.

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There are times that you will feel helpless and just leave the matter to God to fight your battle for you because there is nothing you can do and any attempt from you would only make matters worse.

This was my predicament years ago when I was in senior secondary school, SS 1 precisely.

There are different kinds of students in Secondary school, We have the notorious boys that are always disturbing the other students and most time do not even attend class because they prefer to be in school 2 which is the school farm.

We have the Noisemakers, the quiet ones, the playful ones, the neat freaks and other characters.

I belong to the Playful One's association, once we are on break like this, I and my friends would be running around every class in our department.

On this fateful day, we were playing during break time when I mistakenly stepped on one of the neat freaks' socks, and before I could open my mouth to say `I am sorry`` a dirty thunderous slap landed on my cheek, I did not even know when hot tears started dropping from my eyes.


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I looked at the boy and he was taller than me so trying to hit him back would only make him beat me more so I just stood there with the tears flowing, I do not know which hurt more, is it that pains from the slap or that it was my classmate that slapped me even though he was from a different department, I was in science class and he was in Art.

One of the girls in my class saw what happened and she was not pleased with it, she lashed at the boy that why would he slap his classmate it was really unfair, just because I stepped on his socks, the boy didn't say anything and just left.

I could not play anymore and I was moody throughout that day, like what did I do to deserve such a slap, just for marching your socks eh fine boy.

What do you think? was stepping on him worth the slap?

I bear the grudge for many years, even after we graduated, whenever I see the boy, I just get angry but there was nothing I could do lol.

Years later, after we graduated, I was on one of my visits home when I saw this guy again, but he had not changed, still the same height as at that time whereas I had grown bigger and kind of the same height with him but then I already let go of the past, it was not worth it and the way I even see him, I don't think he is happy with his life.

Just call me Burl.

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That guy must have a bad temper otherwise why he would slap you for such kind of thing. I don't like this kind of person who has no common sense.

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He is a bitter person but he did it because he knows he can go scot free

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There are some times you will want to fight the battle yourself but you discover it is not possible so you leave it to God to fight your battle for you

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The guy probably has a stiff attitude towards life in general, it's only a pair of shocks, the retribution wasn't necessary in my view. Some people can be over the edge with this sort of things, they tend to freak out easily when things are not orderly or immaculate :)

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actually, he is a bully, he won't have act that way if the person that stepped on him was stronger than him

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Right. He only does it to people he can take advantage of.

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I smell transfer of aggression here😂 somebody must have gotten him angry somewhere else if not what you did wasn't worth that slap.

I am glad you are able to go the pains.

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lol, it could be that, but transferring aggression is a bad thing.. i just received a slap for just stepping on a 100 naira socks

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Some people are just very hot tempered because it is something you could’ve just told him sorry and he would look away instead of him slapping you that hard. It is not fair

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it is because he realized he could do it and go scot free

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It is exactly like this, difficult time in life comes in the life of every person and the person who faces this difficult time is patient, then in the next time we see that he is definitely successful in the way that he is. You have just shared your school story with us, so in the end we must have success in the same way.

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Ohww Sorry cutie friend for this kind of bad human. You did not forget that, that mean you're a real guy and and a pure heart of human 💕

You know what; People evolve, but not all of them; some stay the same. That's why for me: You did well to step by accident on him 😉 ahah because he was hurt in his self-esteem and I think that's why he slapped you! 😤

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