Having children my best decision...đź’•
Hello hello my dear friends, how are you today? I hope you are very well, the weekend is here and our friend @galenkp brings us new songs to share our experiences with everyone, I liked two songs, and among them I chose: If you have children: why did you decide to have them? Was it a difficult decision? Did it take you a long time to decide? What were the determining factors? Please explain why in a 300+ word post – use pictures you have taken yourself if possible. (The photos/videos of you making the child are optional), this topic took me a bit back in time, and comparing how I thought several years ago and how I think now, I don't know if fate or life itself have made change my way of thinking so much, I tell you.
Having children was always a complicated issue at home, from the day my older sister got pregnant without getting married, and at a young age, my mom became a bit strict and intense with this issue, she told us over and over again not to go to do the same, even though that baby who was born, my first niece, was our greatest blessing and the joy of our home, I think my mom was very afraid that one of her other daughters would do the same, she always told us that Before thinking about having children, we had to study, have a profession and ways to support a child, in short, the last thing I wanted for many years was to have children without getting married or at least have a good job.
I really always wanted to have children, but it was a complicated subject, like a taboo, I always said, after I graduated from Engineering, I'm going to get married and have my children, I definitely wanted to have my children, to know what it was like to be a mother, it's more , I would have liked to have at least 3 hahaha, but destiny and God's plans are sometimes very different, having children was not a difficult decision, what's more, after my first pregnancy didn't happen, and the chances of getting pregnant again were few, my husband and I talked about adoption, it was something we considered very seriously, we relaxed, we didn't let the issue affect us so much, and a year later I was able to get pregnant again and my little Micaela was born.
Having children is wonderful, it is the most beautiful thing in my life, but you must definitely want to have them, and most importantly you must have the means and the way to keep them safe and sound, currently my daughter tells me that she wants a little brother, but right now My way of thinking about having more than one child has completely changed, life is more complicated every day, the country where I live has been in agony for many years, sometimes it is very difficult for us to keep Mica's expenses up to date, no I want to imagine myself with another child, so I thank God for sending my girl to me at the right time, and it will be just her.
I say goodbye my friends, not if first I wish you a happy weekend with your loved ones, see you in the next one, and thank you for reading and supporting my posts.
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hmmm little Micaela wants a junior brother but I understand you though, you want a good life for her and you know giving birth to another baby might make that hard to achieve due to the expenses....
Hahaha, that's my friend, she asks for her little brother every time she can, but things are very difficult around here.
Thanks for the support.
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Thanks for the support.đź’—
Beautiful your daughter God bless her, you are right having children is beautiful, but you have to have the resources to keep them healthy and with good security.
AmĂ©n amiga, asĂ es, las cosas cada dĂa se ponen más difĂciles, es una lucha diaria para poder tener calidad de vida, serĂa irresponsable traer otro bebĂ© si no puedo mantenerlo. Saludos y gracias por el apoyo.đź’•
Your daughter is beautiful, just like my sibling. It's just a proof that everything happens for a reason!
That's right friend, God is in control of everything. Greetings, thanks for stopping by.
Children are such beautiful aspects of our lives, aren't they?
I'm sure you have reasons for your decision to have just her and those reasons are valid to you. I'm just glad you're there's and able to give your all to such a beautiful girl. You both look absolutely gorgeous.🤗
That's right my friend, children fill our lives with colors, they are a special gift from God. Thank you for your nice comment, and for the support. Greetings and blessings.🙏
Yes they are. Blessings to you too and I hope you're having have a most splendid day.🤗
Gracias por el apoyo.đź’—