Firstly you will all agree with me that pride and ego is an enemy to every reconciliation because with pride in the heart it is very difficult to reconcile and make peace with an opposing party in an argument or quarrel, it is very important we fight against this pride and ego to bring back peace and unity during arguments and misunderstandings.

Dropping the pride and tearing your ego's may be a very difficult thing to do depending on the kinds of persons that we are and the kind of situation that resulted to this mania. But it is always healthy to remind ourselves and keep in mind that these pride and ego's will never bring the solution to a situation rather, it conveys more harm to a friendship or relationship.

Even tho it is obvious that words can't physically put back broken piece together in whole but simple words of apology can actually repair do so mentally. What do i mean by this statement?.

Imagine you broke a glass cup in the kitchen knowing fully well of the consequences thereafter if your mum see's it after cautioning you not to damage kitchen utensils and you walk up to her to apologize. Definitely she might get mad but will surely have a soft spot in the heart for you because of your words of apology rather than if you acted reluctantly or try to play smart.

Yes an apology can solve ninety if not nearly a hundred percent of an argument, quarrel or oppositions as it is the most vibrant step towards peace making and reconciliation.

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I am a peace maker and it makes me happy to see people living in peace and harmony, i also love having my personal peace of mind which is a very important factor in my life. all this is because I believe that the world is way too small for me or anybody to have ego's,pride or unforgiveness over another person because you do not know where you will meet yourselves tomorrow in the future.

Unforgiveness is a burden to carry in the mind because if you do not forgive someone it simply means that their iniquities and crimes are still registered somewhere in our heart and trust me it make the heart feel heavy and bitter whenever you see these people around you. But when you forgive and allow bye-gone to be gone and forgotten, the heart gets reliefed of these burdens then peace and freedom fills up the space inside you.

Nothing can ever be more pleasing than a forgiving heart, one who forgives and forgets, reconciles and reconnects, build and re-strengthen a friendship or relationship after a glitch of misunderstanding. This is my kind of person and i am proud to be who i am. And now i urge everyone of us to always swallow our prides, and take the first step of apology even tho you weren't at fault at all. We should always lead by example and take the first step of reconciliation to sustain our friendships and relationships.

When peter asked Jesus "Lord, how many times do i have to forgive my brother's and sisters who have sinned against me and Jesus replied that he should forgive not 7 times but 77 times." matthew 18: 21-22

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This conversation tells us that forgiveness is a priority and we must be attached to it. I hope you have learnt something today thank you for your wonderful time do have a great day.

𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜 𝕐𝕠𝕦 𝔽𝕠𝕣 ℝ𝕖𝕒𝕕𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕋𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝔸𝕣𝕥𝕚𝕔𝕝𝕖 𝕚 𝕓𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕖𝕧𝕖 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕖𝕟𝕛𝕠𝕪𝕖𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕝𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕟𝕥 𝕤𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕣𝕠𝕞 𝕚𝕥.

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