BUILDING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS: 🎁DO NOT DESPISE THE GIFT OF MEN🎁

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“🎁Wealth is People, and, the quality of a man's wealth is the abundance of credible people he has around him🎁”– Queenstarr


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One of the Blessings of discernment is the ability to perceive things, in this case people as they come and go. Discernment almost works like mind reading, you’re able to pick signals. The secret to a life of victory is the ability discern.
I want to share with you my thoughts and teachings, a secret that governs a Quantum leap in a man’s life. A mystery responsible for sudden explosion in the lives of individuals be it online or offline as witnessed.

THE GIFT OF MEN

There are men called 🎁GIFTS, and anyone who has this gift comes into fullness. Most of the time, these men don’t come all flashy. Some may look as though they need help themselves, but if you indeed have the gift of discernment, you will spot these jewels out immediately. By Men here, I don't mean it in the context of Gender, but rather the generalization in the context of creation.

Everything on earth today happens because of entities called men. War and peace, poverty and wealth, economic systems, and policies that govern territories are all engineered by men. The reason for love, hatred, and why everything else works or not is not because of animals, but of men. Everything revolves around men. How an entire civilization is running today is because of these men. We study clothes, galaxies, atoms, animals, and everything else, but we hardly study Man.

I believe in God. And I've been told innumerable times during my Christian upbringing that God cares about me. Why not pay attention to the birds, plants, and other wildlife? how valuable am i , how valuable are we humans that He'll pay so much attention to? I ask myself.

Today, I'm going to show you something that my Granny, parents and spiritual leaders over the years have taught me and I've watched them practice too. The most abundant secret to our blessings 'MEN' moves around us every day, yet we can trade it a thousand times for oil. We protect properties, more than we protect men. If 100,000 people die and our oil fields are still protected, we think we are alright.

In ancient times, when kings had men, they were called wealthy. When a man enters another's life, it is referred to be an advantage. Every rise and fall of another man was engineered by another man, according to history. You're dismissing more than a personality when you neglect men; you're excluding the realm of possibilities from your existence.

The prosperity, fulfillment, and quality of your life on this planet are largely determined by the quality of men around you. So much greatness has hung over the heads of many because the men needed to make it happen are either unavailable or have arrived only to be despised or humiliated, forcing them to leave.

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There are Three (3) valid pointers from personal and others experiences to the presence of valuable men in a person’s life.


1✅THE COMING OF MEN INTO YOUR LIFE IS THE COMING OF WISDOM, IDEAS, AND STRATEGIES. The only entities able to convey these 3 gifts are men. Anytime a man walks into your life, begin to rejoice, as it’s not just an entity, but these gifts as well. Don’t pay attention to their physical looks or personalities because some may have offended you. Just focus on these things because men are the vehicles used to transport these gifts. Anytime you see a man come into your life, pay attention.


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2✅THE COMING OF MEN INTO YOUR LIFE BIRTHS ENDORSEMENTS AND OPPORTUNITIES. Men are the conveyors of these two things. If no man can endorse or approve you in this life, you’ll never rise. For example, if the FDA endorses a drug, that drug sells faster, and whenever you’re in doubt, because of the seal of endorsement by the FDA, you trust that product.

Somebody who earns the loyalty of the people must speak for you, otherwise closed doors will never open. So, I ask, who is speaking for you, who can put their integrity on the line for your sake and vouch for you?

Do not trivialize endorsements so that when you find a man that endorses you, then no sacrifice to maintain this relationship becomes too much because you understand the implication of that person’s reputation on your life.

Unnecessary pride, childishness, and anger towards everybody because you think you’re the god of yourself and don’t need anybody will keep you stagnated and in serious hardship for the rest of your life. It is true that not every voice can lift you, but the voice that has been accredited is the voice that can lift you, and I hope you encounter such accredited voices. The right voice that speaks for you is a ladder for you to climb.

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3✅THE COMING OF MEN INTO YOUR LIFE GIVES ACCESS TO FINANCIAL AND MATERIAL RESOURCES. Every currency and material resource that you need is currently in the possession of a human being right now. Finance and material resources needed for anything don’t fall from heaven, but they're transferred from one person to another. There are humans on earth generous enough to change your life. It is a false assumption to believe everyone is greedy. There are absolute benevolent human beings. Your own part is to win their hearts through honesty, modesty and proof that we ourselves are valuable. People will not put money into nothing, so be valuable enough to worth it. Humans are intelligent beings. You can't force or manipulate your way into other people's life. It is a complete waste of time. Just be yourself; sincerity opens doors and wins hearts.

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I have witnessed people who both cherished and those who trivialized valuable men that came into their lives and seen the results thereof. I have also experienced the gift of men both online and offline, one that stood out till date online for me is when I mistakenly exposed my keys and my assets got stolen in January, but because the gift of men, everything was restored with extras as-though I lost nothing.

THE GIFT OF MEN is greater than money, they aren't money bags, don't be an opportunist, rather wholeheardtedly love people and want a healthy relationship with them. I have not attained all these but sharing with you what I've been striving at however best i can for the past years of my adult life. I hope these few words encourages and makes you cherish the people around you.


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Soooo deep!

Unnecessary pride, childishness, and anger towards everybody because you think you’re the god of yourself and don’t need anybody will keep you stagnated and in serious hardship for the rest of your life.

Agree!! Louder please so people in the back can hear it! 😅

Just be yourself; sincerity opens doors and wins hearts.

Isn't it too difficult to be a fake version of yourself? Oh well, maybe there are really people who can be fake and be good at it.

There are humans on earth generous enough to change your life.

And this, oh yes, agree!
Thank you for helping me change my life, @queenstarr! 😍

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"Louder please so people in the back can hear it!..."

🤣LOL

😍You're too sweet darling, so glad you took time out to read and thank you for being your beautiful self always. Much Love to you❤️

!PIZZA

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a secret that governs a Quantum leap in a man’s life.

You got my attention right here 🔝

I'm a man, so I better not say much right here! 😊 But your Post was for me interesting, provocative, and uplifting. A topic to be discussed continuously!

Thank you, @queenstarr!

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Thank you so much Acgalarza Sir,
I totally appreciate your visit here. Your words are rich and encouraging. One love to you & beautiful family❤️

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When you don't have someone that will endorse you, you remain in stagnation and unnecessary hardship. This is loud

Truly pride and anger kills relationship.
Men are not money bags don't be an opportunist .

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I'm glad you picked these up dear, thank you so much for visiting🤗❤️

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Wow . What a fascinating perspective. I hope I share these gifts to others in my life.
I try my best.
Thanks for the wonderful post.
!CTP

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Thank you so much for your kind words Alente, As you've rightly said, We can only hope and try we share these gifts aswell. One Love💗

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Wow, I didn't know that the value in this post was something I needed so deeply, but it was so refreshing she encouraging to read your words, even being married to a woman who deeply values me.

Something that I think is really cool about this post, though, is how true it is for everyone. This is the reason that the phrase "iron sharpens iron" exists! A man really is only as good as the company he keeps, and high quality company promotes a higher quality existence. Very important to discern those individuals when they show up in life, and make the most of the opportunity to grow deeper in relationship with them.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! !PIZZA !WINE !HBIT !LUV !BEER

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Hello Thinkrdotexe😊👋
Such a pleasure reading your comment, such kind and thoughtful words by you.
Indeed, you rightly summarised everything.

I'm so glad I shared. One love✌️❤️

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I like your perspective. It looks classic to me and contrary to popular opinion.

Thanks to @milla for sharing your content on ListNerds.

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I am a gift, thanks queen!

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😂Yes indeed, you're a gift Burl🎁
One love✌️❤️

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I am really happy this is coming from a lady
You really made wonderful points in this post that is worth jotting down and saving for future references

THE GIFT OF MEN is greater than money, they aren't money bags, don't be an opportunist,

It will help us all to keep this in mind also

Wonderful post

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awe! so glad you found these points helpful. I appreciate your kind words, one love💗

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As a man, I think this should be an open discussion. This is a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing,

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Yes i agree. Thank you so much, you're kind💗

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This is a really great read. I must commend you and your mind on writing this masterpiece

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Hey Tunkem, Thank you so much for stopping by with such lovely and encouraging words. One Love💗

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