A Trip Down Memory Lane - Showing Our Daughter Our Old Home Near Granada

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Picking up a box

Although we planned on being out in Granada in the morning, to visit both old friends, our moods were down the drain in the morning as it was an emotionally heavy day on Saturday. We canceled our first appointment to have a morning of movies and see how we felt in the afternoon. By the time it was 1 PM, we felt like we should head to Granada anyway to pick up the final box of old stuff left there as it was in their basement for so long already. No idea if that was worth staying there this many years as well as even picking it up, thankfully, the company was well worth the drive and time as it's always good to see them.

Hot day

From 32 degrees at "our" coast to 41 degrees in the Granada area was very noticeable, especially because we drove there in the middle of the day, in a black car. Nuts! It was less bad than I anticipated though, we both felt it was not that bad once the air conditioning finally started to actually cool the air in the car. At some point, we had to turn up the temperature to make sure we would not end up getting hit in the head by the heat when stepping out of the car.

Familiar areas

When we were close to where we needed to be, we first saw the familiar shopping hall "Nevada Shopping Center" in Armilla, where we used to live. My boyfriend said let's show her where we lived before we moved to Budapest. It was just a 15-minute detour, so he took the exit to drive to our old municipality square where all the magic happened. Good memories were made, some shitty ones too but mostly, I felt happier there than I felt in years. It was a good pitstop in our journey towards building again.

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The statue at the square of our old town, I always thought it was cool.

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The actual municipality office where we registered in our first rental together, a lot of festivities took place here.

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On the left you see some greenery a bit further, and the buildings there on the left is where we used to live, one of these balconies was ours at the time, we could see everything very well from there and if you look in the background, there's the Sierra Nevada, we used to see snow on the mountain top while standing in the bloody sun on our balcony.

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The other side of the building was this street, some cafes were there and the metro stop that they were testing for a long time, I didn't see any metros that day, I wonder if it's even in use right now.

Memories of our 1-year old

As it's a quite open square with no shade where we stopped, I quickly took a few pictures and jumped back into the car. While I was looking at the street where we lived, I remember our daughter running around in a walker with my boyfriend behind her to supervise. I can still see that little 1 year old running around in front of our balcony while I heard her yell from excitement being inside our apartment above. She had the cutest laugh!

We just had her first birthday in that apartment when we started to look for jobs outside of Spain as well, as things weren't progressing as quickly as we hoped. It's a good area to live in if you're not depending on working for a multinational or speak the language (read: have plenty of job options even outside your field), while otherwise, it can be hard to find something.

I remember how friendly the Spanish people were with children and I always loved that in Spain. It was no different in this area when we returned, thankfully. It's cool to see our now 7-year-old daughter have conversations in Spanish when we have tapas. The ladies working there love challenging her to see if she's getting better with the language. And when she does, you can see they're proud. These things make me feel at home, I appreciate the friendliness in people a lot, even more so after not experiencing this same feeling in another country.

We feel at home here

Even though where we live now is not our "home" I do feel very connected to Spain and I can see us living here for a long time. We have to admit that being back in the Granada area made us feel nostalgic, as it did last time when we visited the area. Back then it was discussed if we should head back to that area, and then life took over so I stopped searching for homes there.

Now I think we both lean a lot towards moving back to the area because we love how it's much greener over there, over here it's like the desert filled with greenhouses as soon as you hit the road that's basically all you see. We feel having a house with a garden is very affordable over there compared to here (at the coast) so we could expand our searches to homes with gardens and maybe even check villages outside of the city for more own outside space vs an apartment with a community pool. Over here, the desire for 3 bedrooms is nice to have, but hard to fulfill. It's not impossible but definitely more expensive than in the Granada area.

On top of that, it would be nice to be able to visit friends in that area more often because it's harder to visit when you have to drive 1,5 hours towards and than 1,5 hours back home. Thankfully for me, who will be searching for a new home, I have been granted a few other options to look for such as unfurnished and even inside the city (depending on the facilities).

First, we will enjoy the summer holidays, and then it's house hunting time.



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We need a bit of nostalgia every now then. Even if is only to think and reflect a bit to see what all has happened over the last couple of years. You guys are troopers!

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Thank you, I agree, we came from far, to be honest, and if I look at that tiny apartment over there, with no airflow and just 1 fan in the living room without airco, I could not do it anymore today. But we did what we had to do, so we adapted, not knowing what we got ourselves into, on the other side, lol.

It was fun to drive around on a Sunday and see that there was still just 1 thing open during midday hours and for the rest, a ghost town. I mean, here the shops are closed on Sundays as well but the supermarkets (and some shops) are open from the end of June to September more or less when it's tourist season. And we have a lot of tapas bars open every day.

I hope you're doing well!

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That looks like a nice place, I've never been there before. Most of my time I have spent in Spain has mostly been in Barcelona and Madrid. It's pretty there!

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It's nothing special honestly, but I did enjoy our time there and it was close to Granada. Plus we had the big shopping center for the bigger shops which was great as we didn't have to go to Granada every time we needed something. This was a 30-minute walk in the heat during summer but with the bus to Granada, it would have taken even more time (and sunburns, lol). We didn't have a car at the time, life was pretty hard in summer walking everywhere with a stroller and 1 year old :)

Everything is so much easier when there's a car, I look back at that time and think, man, that was hard. But still, we felt happy there, so it's a nice thing to look back to every now and then. It was the start of our new life abroad after some very difficult and stressful years. Therefore it has a special place in my heart.

PS we have never been to Barcelona or Madrid. It's so many hours drive away so probably not going to happen until we need a passport renewal or something :)

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It sounds like you had a nice time anyway. Cars make life infinitely easier, walking everywhere with a stroller in summer heat would really suck! I liked Barcelona more than Madrid mainly because it's on the coast, but Madrid had so much history. Big cities are hard to get around anyway, sounds like you're happy where you are!

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Although we thought we would move near the Barcelona area after settling down, for now, I don't really see it happening. First of all, we're quite fed up with the big cities in general, most are quite alike in terms of dirty streets and from what I've seen about Barcelona, it's not much better than Budapest was.

I know we have to visit there one day though because of the history and La Sagrada Familia cathedral. But usually, when we come to a city, we are both fed up very quickly because of being stuck in traffic as well as the one-way streets making it impossible to navigate once you can't find a parking spot and are familiar with the area, lol. On top of that, our car is not allowed in those two cities so when we have to go there, it should be with the next car OR a rental OR public transport.

The only city we'd consider is Granada as we lived in a few towns around Granada at the time and we never experienced the center with the same feeling as we did in all the other big cities we visited. I could never be that tourist again who spends days in a city just to do all these tours visiting all the cathedrals, parliament buildings, etc because to me they are not that special anymore, lol.

I don't think we will stay in this coast area though, it's like the dessert within greenhouses, it's fine for now but I think we should have moved back to Granada right away instead of seeking coastal life. Sometimes you have to experience things first, so it's fine. We're good for a little longer and it's possible our next rental (and hopefully final rental before buying) is still in this area if we can't find anything in Granada and surroundings fast enough, but I'm really ok with it open to different outcomes.

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The big city does lose it's allure and magic after you've done all the tours and seen all the sites. Public transport is almost the easiest way to around there too and traffic is always horrible. I know the feeling of wanting to be by the coast, I lived in the Caribbean for several years, it was great, but eventually it gets old too.

Buying will feel great, renting and moving gets really old. The key is to find that area you are all happy. Life can be an adventure, and living in different places is fun, but once you have kids it's much easier to just settle down in one spot!

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Ah really, it was always my dream to move to the Caribbean. Where did you live if I may ask? I never went there (yet) it's on my list but it will take some more years I guess. Other things have priority.

I believe you right away when you say it gets old. I mean we chased having a coast for all these years in Budapest, and now we have it, we never go for a swim in the sea, lol.

Can't wait until we saved enough to buy. It's probably a good thing we could not buy right away though as it seems we won't be staying here either. I really hope it's the final area before buying though, for sure the last country, that's clear now that our daughter did so well in her first year in a Spanish public school.

Thankfully, I was not wrong about that part, her adapting easier to the Spanish language than Hungarian :)

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Pff so bussy I missed this one, those Armilla pics bring back memories ...yes even in those last 3 braincells I have left.

Let´s see if house hunting will be a success because it would be fun to finally meet again. But take it slow its way to hot to think about atm.

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I literally stepped out of the car for 3 minutes tops because it was so bloody hot. But it was funny to see where we lived back then and how we have been upgrading the places we lived at since :)

What's the temp over there today? I saw a forecast yesterday that it would be 39 degrees here today, I was thinking how hot it would be in Granada, lol.

We actually found a house we want to rent, waiting for the contact person to get back to me for an appointment and if we can make it happen (that's the question as it's unfurnished) we will take it after we've seen it. It's an actual house with a garden, patio, terrace, and 4 bedrooms. Oh and a community pool :) So fingers crossed, we may be driving in your direction soon to check it.

Sorry about last time, I really didn't feel too great to be out all day and was taking it slow so we ended up going to pick up our box only and had dinner in Granada before we drove home. But we'll catch up soon, I'm sure as we're quite determined to move back there, lol.

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I think it ended up being 41 but no humidity so its okay-ish.
I have not been to Arimillia since you guys left, why would I? But I remember all those pics.

Sounds like an awesome place, just guessing it must be at least $650 am I close?

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Nah, no need to visit Armilla if you have nothing there to visit. I mean that Nevada shopping center is nice if you live around the corner but I would not be bothered going there from Granada honestly. After all, they are all the same lol. The one we have here is from the same owner so it's almost identical. For us it was convenient back then because it saved us a trip to the city with the bus.

Yeah, even 50 more lol so very close. But still waiting for an answer and I asked to make sure we won't have to drive 1,5 hours to and back to hear that someone else is still able to say yes before us. We only drive there if there's no other optional tenant because that's just way too much time and very annoying otherwise.

Let's see..

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Those prices went crazy, the house you guys stayed at with the pool I rented for 550 those guys would probably ask 850 now and you paid a crazy amount for Gaseol in the winter.

But indeed not worth the effort if you go for no reason .....lets see

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Yeah, I know but you didn't have 4 bedrooms, a garden, a terrace, and a patio (which would be ideal for the kittens). This house is 170m2 so that also counts for something. There's also a garage, I think similar to yours back then, which we really need as the car is really suffering from being outside and it's a shame because before we bought it, the car always stayed in a garage.

There's heating in this house so at least we don't have to use these gas heaters so it seems. Sent the real estate guy a message that his colleague didn't get back to me yet but as the bank also told us it's earlier hours this week due to Virgen del Carmen festivities, this may also be the case for him.

Fingers crossed :)

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Lol yes I meant the other one, that one was only 400 or 350.
Just make sure the heating is not on Gasoel (Diesel) because that will be freaking expensive.

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Good tip, I saw pictures with heaters on the wall as we know in Holland, so I assume it's not that, or could it still be?

I'm sad that we are using the airco a lot more now after 3 months of really low Endesa bills, lol. It really saved a lot of money using the fan (even though it's super loud) and window open during the day. But with this heat wave it's already impossible to even have some cool air in the mornings, hopefully it's not ongoing until September :D

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Could be, its the same look but normally they use those diesel ones in areas with no gas tubing.

Loser😂 we still don't use the airco, fans only and the mobile airco only in the weekend for 4-5 hours max Never a high endessa bill if you are living with a Zeeuw it´s always 60-70 a month max

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But Granada heat is not so humid as the coast heat so its more bearable I think

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I just realized you meant that house with pool and not in the other place, I don't know how many bedrooms you had there but I do remember the basement was a bit moldy so personally, I'd stay away from that if possible after all the shit experiences with that stuff in previous apartments. I'd rather pay a little more and not have the extreme pain from the moldy house in winter (after all it's the Granada area, not here with milder winter) so that I don't have these issues anymore.

We had mold here too but the pain we had from it was a lot less than with the cold apartment in Armilla. Thas a real pain without a proper heater :)

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The basement had no mold, and was nice and warm in the winter and cool in the summer but the upper bedrooms did all have mold problems in wet periods- It had the basement with a separate bedroom and 3 bedrooms upstairs so 4 bedrooms in total.

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I remember the wall being wet though when we were moving you. I can still point out which wall even. But yeah your own pool that's even better, but I'm ok not having my own one for a few more years, a community one is fine, especially if we can put a smaller one in our own garden as well so that she can also use it in the garden without me having to leave the house and sit there at the pool constantly.

The size of that house was indeed good, I first though you meant the other one, but honestly, I liked that house too and I'd settle for a similar one as well. Just better if we can get more bedrooms as the little one can finally have her own room and in the case of 4 bedrooms, we can even add one separate office. But that last one is considered a luxury, I have no issues having my office in the bedroom.

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Lol we moved in summer and the wall in the basement were never wet, but especially not in summer. Think your memory is off there ,but the upstairs rooms all had mold and moist in November and April but whatever.

I settle for 3 bedrooms but for now this one with two works fine I pay 450 including Mortgage, community fees, and insurance and then another 150 for gas, water, internet and electricity so total cost a month 600 and I earn another 40 for renting my garage space to a neighbor.

That makes me feel a little stupid leaving and wanting to buy a house which will probably cost me close to double that price. Like a 1000 a month at minimum 1100 max for mortgage, insurance, gas light and water.

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I may be wrong about the wall, but you moved in October :P

Honestly, I have a hard time believing any of these houses don't have that shit, unless we can get airflow through the home, which is again, in this home a serious issue. That's really something I find very important, enough windows for the next home as it will be the one we plan to stay at until we buy.

Yeah, your home is a good price, and from what I saw on Google maps, that area would be fine by me as well. I'm not limiting our search to a certain area but mostly focussed on the facilities and a max distance to Granada.

I would not mind finding one with the option to buy later either, haven't asked it yet for this one as it's not a dealbreaker anyway. Would be a good bonus, not a dealbreaker if it's not possible.

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This place I live now is wonderful indeed. Location is great, neighbors are decent, walk to metro is 12 min. Walk to Carrefour 7 min, Lidl 8 min, Mercadonna 12 min. And price is ridiculous, that is why I don't get myself. Why do I want a real house !LOLZ I know why, but I would definitely try to keep this one and rent it out, just as a backup and investment.

And no mold at all here, gas heating but we use an eñectric one those 10 times you need it. It´s really a nice place but no garden, no 3 bedrooms, and a bit more privacy are benefits of a real house but with the current interest rates I might switch the plan from first the house and then the baby to first the baby and then the house. We will see whatever happens it will take at least another year.

Good luck keep me posted.

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Decent neighbors is so hard to get lol, we've been so unlucky with the neighbors and construction or the empty field next to our window being constructed to a full apartment complex and now we have this shitty public stairs meaning a lot of noise and freaking smoke of different sorts blowing inside the home. Which we can't even get out properly because you know, as with the heat, you need airflow. So that's the only positive thing about being in a heatwave, the window will be closed anyway :)

Personally, I prefer a house simply because I would like a garden finally, it's different than having a balcony. BUT I admit that I could settle for another apartment for a few more years but then the place has to feel really good and have a proper balcony, garage and pool :)

I have not heard back today so that's freaking annoying. It's possible this guy from the department is not working and didn't pass our data and we miss out. But we'll see, maybe the universe has something better in store for us..

!PIMP

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Overhere I have few complaints, although I was worried they would start building at the open field I am looking out on, but nothing happened in these 2 years (neither in the 3 years I rented the attic piso).

For me its really about the high interest on the mortgage atm, we should have saved enough to buy a house by next summer but the current rates are not dropping till 2024 so maybe 2025 is smarter?

We just have a luxury problem. Yaelle wants a modern house with a pool and I want a nice big garden with trees and room for a pool (which is not often found next to those modern houses). Modern houses in general are hard to find in Spain !LOLZ

So luxury problems, but so happy I own this place and nobody can kick me out as long as I pay 300 something each month...that is such a weight of my shoulders

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If the high-interest rate drops in 2025 that seems smarter but I can imagine some things are shit to postpone longer. Maybe Y can't wait any longer :P

Modern is indeed harder to find and from what I've seen also a lot more expensive. I prefer the big garden where there's room to grow things and build a pool later as well, until then, a smaller pool for a lot less money will do :)

It must be a great feeling that you won't lose your home because of a shitty landlord changing plans! I can't wait to have that same feeling lol

!PIMP

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It must be a great feeling that you won't lose your home because of a shitty landlord changing plans!

It is been there just a bit too often...

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Yeah, that sucks. You know we didn't have the best luck either but the two in Budapest were fair, just very slow in fixing things or not fixing things at all. The last one was an older Dutch guy who didn't speak the language either and also didn't know who to call, lol. Was pretty shit.

Currently, we probably have the most hands-on landlord ever, especially if you consider he's a Spaniard lol. His brother on the other hand, I was happy when we could deal with the guy who makes stuff happen directly as his brother was "muy dificil" to communicate with :)

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Just missed a call as my phone was on silent, looked up the number, from a real estate agent in Granada. Will send you an app about it..

!PIMP

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